Desperation

Its been a while since I talked about Steve's family, I think... lol I haven't really read my blog posts in a while.

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Round 1

The past few months especially have been the weirdest. Steve's mom wanted to buy a house a few months ago, she freaked out because she thinks that its the only time she can get a house so she's been desperate trying to buy one in North Van.

When she was told that she can't get one because she doesn't make enough income she asked Steve's sister and him to be co-signers for the mortgage, it still wasn't enough and it didn't get approved.

So since it wasn't approved she is forcing them to move out of their current apartment, why? We don't really know why LOL we were like yeah you couldn't get a house - but it doesn't mean you have to move... its kind of illogical and an inconvenience for everyone that you live with.

They should really stop letting his mom make decisions for their family. She's too impulsive and she doesn't really think ahead about how it affects other people.

I'm kind of worried about Steve co-signing a mortgage with his mom and sister (I'm not the only one) because I kinda had a goal to get a place for us within like 5 years (like a townhouse or an apartment) but him co-signing a 15 year mortgage with 2 other people would be difficult for us to get a place one day.

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Round 2

We thought since they didn't get approved his mom would stop looking at houses and actually look for a place to rent but nope!

The house they went to look at most recently is actually near my house and its a 2 bedroom 1 bathroom place and its a fixer upper (unfinished basement, roof needs replacing, flooring needs to be replaced), they want to renovate it and then sell it within 2 years.

They went and put an offer on that house and its about $679,000 for the house and the offer they put it was about $630,000? something like that and the owner of the house is refusing the offer because I guess they think the house is worth more? (its not lol) so they said $670,000 take it or leave it.

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Final Round

So here is where it gets fucked up for me and my family. Instead of looking for a place to move into next month they were just looking at houses, why? Priorities? lol its like yeah you can put an offer on a house but you won't always be able to move into it right away. So Steve's mom wants to come back and live at our house (for 2-3 months) and the only person she asked was my mom. She didn't ask what me or my dad wants and the thing is our mom doesn't make household decisions like that.

Of course she would ask my mom because they get along and she knew my mom would say yes. I told Steve that NO WAY that I will let that happen it was just absolute hell when she lived here, the suite they used to live in isn't even available for them to rent so the only option is the tiny little room near the garage and it really isn't big enough for 2 people and a dog.

So I talked to Steve about how its definitely not going to work, I explained to him how last time his mom lived here the utility bills were so high and I said it wouldn't matter if she paid for it this time around because she's just too loud and inconsiderate and then adding his sister and the dog? its just not going to work. It'll work out for her but it'll stress the shit out of everyone else in the house.

I go on practicum soon and I don't want to be woken up at 5AM because she decided to call someone in Korea and put them on speaker phone so everyone can hear or us hearing her argue with his sister or Steve. Or hear Monet excessively barking.

Its just not going to work plain and simple, I explained it to him and he told his mom that it isn't going to work, her reaction? SUPER PISSED OFF she absolutely hates my dad even though I told Steve that it was mostly my decision. But you know, she should have said something months ago instead of last minute like she always does.

At the end of the day its like if she's making all these decisions for her family, why is it that she has to drag my family into it? I mean its not like me and Steve are fully committed (no ring on ma finger! lol) I'd probably be a little more ok with it if that were the case (probably not though LOL) and if our roles were reversed his mom would not help us in any way.

Plus it'd be beneficial for Steve to live away from his mom and sister. I don't know why they are so dependent on him... laziness? Probably.

At this point his mom is on her own agenda and because we're not doing what she wants, she's super pissed off and its time she deals with her problems like an adult. 

*UPDATE BONUS ROUND*

I knew Steve would pussy out about living in our house. His mom won't let him move out for the next 2-5 years because he has to help pay for the mortgage because they finally got a place in North Van (its a town house in East North Van)

All his friends are even like "WTF why are you getting a mortgage with your mom? Don't get one!" his answer? "I have no choice" ... REALLY! YOU CAN SAY NO, fucking idiot! he's too scared of his mom.

So if we got married and etc, then its really up to me to deal with the big expenses (like buying a property, etc) but he won't be allowed to live with me unless he is contributing to mortgage/rent cause wtf, really!

Short story time!

Late Merry Christmas to everyone! I hope you all had a good holiday and have fun partying tomorrow on new years eve!

I wanted to write this out while it is still fresh in my mind

Well its not really a story as it is just some stupid shit that really pissed me off lol

Last night I spent the night at Steve's place and his mom was at work and his sister was out having dinner with her friends.

Steve's sister took his mom's car cause she didn't want to bus home and she asked Steve to pick up their mom from work, he said no cause he has to work early in the morning (leaves at 6AM gets up at 5AM to get ready for work) and she gets off at like 11PM so he wanted some extra sleep. Plus his sister works in the morning too (by 9AM) so he figured by 11PM she'd be heading home. So she said fine I'll pick her up.

When his mom came home she was all super pissed off, she freaked the fuck out at him because his sister had to leave her friends to pick her up and then go back. She was like going opening and slamming drawers and doors, kept swearing and yelling about how he was selfish and only thought about himself and that he doesn't give a shit about the family.

I was like WHAT THE HELL, he does nothing but do shit FOR the family, your daughter DOES NOTHING!!! She only cares if his sister has a good time and looks good in front of her friends but doesn't give a shit about making him do everything and add on more stress.

I was like WTF, so your daughter parties with her friends and takes no responsibility to pick you up with YOUR car and you freak out at your son for not picking you up cause you wanted your daughter to have a good time with her friends... *slow claps*

That really pissed me off, its his sisters problem, shouldn't be his like wtf, if his mom had such a big ass problem with it she should have said something earlier, making it a huge problem is fucking stupid.

One day we get back from our trip from the states and she's already being extremely selfish

Jesus!

December Update

This is basically going to be a few months worth of updates since I don't post as much anymore. Now that I'm on Christmas break I finally have the time to sit down and write a proper post :)

WARNING: long post ahead, no pictures LOL

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School

I'm almost done school! Its taken up the majority of my time, I only see Steve like once a week lol since I have no time to do anything. I'm going to school to become a medical lab assistant and the past two months. I've been super tired probably due to blood loss LOL. Its been tough but I'm contemplating whether I should go back to school for another program my school offers, but I guess I will wait and see.

Yesterday we had our final for microbiology which was almost cancelled because this random alarm went off lol but we ended up doing the written exam (it was a procedural final and a written final) we did do the procedural but it was quicker than normal because of the alarm.

I made some good friends from the class but I have a feeling I will lose touch of some of them super quick after we graduate. Two for sure I know I will try to keep my friendship with but others... who knows.

Just two more months of school and then I'm done! :)

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Family

Next week we go to Ashleys!! WOOO but I'm so broke, like really broke that I'm not even sure if I should go or not ahahahah, but if I get a job after I graduate I won't be able to see Ashley or her husband until.. who knows?

I have a feeling my dad feels sad because none of his daughters will be home for the holidays but its not like we ever celebrated christmas to begin with. 

My mom is getting crazier by the day and I have a feeling she actually has to kill someone with the car until she gets her license taken away or for her case to be taken seriously because her driving is fucking insane. I cringe every time I get in the car and watch her drive >.<

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Steve and his family

Oh boy... this one might be a long one lol

Let's see where to start, Steve's mom didn't get some work for a few weeks and in between that time I swear to god she went absolutely insane. She kept getting pissed off at Steve for not doing shit for her (like pay bills, buy groceries, get gas for her car) she got pissed off to the point where she would slam doors and freak the fuck out and he would get super pissed, then I would get pissed. 

I told him: "she's got no excuse not to do any of those things, you're (steve) working full time and she's not working right now and she's at home all the time. She has all the time in the world to do that shit, why is she making you do it? Not only that you have a sister who is a secretary who can do all of those things, why doesn't she ask her to do it, why does it always have to be you? She's not stupid as far as I know, just being lazy"

He was like yeah wtf, I guess he never looked at it from my point of view but he freaked out at her and said all the shit I said and she's backed off for a bit but I know its not going to last. The thing is he allows her to do all of that by enabling her, he'll do stuff to shut her up but it doesn't teach her any thing. It really makes me wonder what he will do in the future when he moves out and she has to do all that stuff for herself. She'll probably just bribe him with money to do it for her - that's my guess.

His sister started working as a executive secretary at a hotel in Vancouver. It makes me wonder how her work ethic is because when she's at home, she's super lazy, she doesn't want to do anything, she even gets his mom to drive her to and from the work place where she could bus easily there. Plus when she goes out drinking with her friends she gets their mom to pick her up all the way from downtown but when Steve needs a lift when he's been drinking he has to take a bus home because they both are too lazy to go pick him up.. wtf!

Steve's mom freaked out at Steve for playing video games and said to him "you don't give a shit about the family, all you care about is yourself" (because he plays video games LOL) and it made me wonder what role she thinks his sister is playing in the family. But she probably gets to get away with things like this because she's a girl and I know his mom likes to emphasize gender roles "you're my son you're supposed to do things for me" that bullshit.

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Got a few posts being edited so stay tuned for those! (Beauty and some makeup posts!)

May Updates 2014

So far worst month of the year lol.

I was supposed to visit Ashley earlier in the month but my stupid credit card got compromised (yay..) so I couldn't go and I was so pissed off! its been already a week and my fucking credit card hasn't come in the mail yet. So embarrassing trying to buy something with your credit card and getting it declined lol.

Then! I got my period late by like a week and I was freaking out lol, I think it was late because I went off the pill but when I was on the pill before my periods weren't irregular so.. wtf lol.

Steve dropped his Samsung Galaxy S4 and it broke for the second time in 6 months AND he had one of those shock absorbent phone cases that's supposed to help soften the fall or whatever and it did not work at all and it was like a 2-3 foot drop. So now he has to blow like $300 to fix his phone, he's never getting a Samsung phone ever again since it is the second time and honestly, you would think that a $700 phone would be able to endure a 2-3 foot drop without the screen shattering.. Iphones are more sturdy from our experience lol.

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We went to the states the other day just to pick up a package (doesn't take that long to just cross the border) and it pisses me off so much when people overload the shit out of their cars so crap comes flying off of them when you drive behind them.

Steve bought a new car (not sure if I mentioned it..) and this bitch had dirt and rocks in her truck and was driving on the highway when suddenly all these rocks and dirt came flying at his car (secure that shit, really! or better yet clean it out!) it chipped his windshield (in 3 different places) and his paint, and I highly doubt ICBC will do shit about it because they don't care, I took a picture of the truck and wrote down their license plate. Steve was obviously super pissed about it because well ITS A NEW FUCKING CAR, he's had it for less than a month! I bet they'll say "its an act of god" or whatever and its not the fault of the person who owned the truck... could've been prevented if they had cleaned that shit out!

Then we came home and Steve and his mom got into an argument LOL what about? Well basically she woke him up at 5:30AM because she forgot to tell her management about her keycard at work so she wanted him to write out what to say in English for her and he was pissed off about it so he told her not to wake him up like that again unless she's got something written down and she FREAKED THE FUCK OUT he told her to do it the night before or at least have something written down so he can edit it but he had to write it on the spot. It was his day off and she's had tons of ESL classes and shit like wtf! SO LAZY! She can't really use the excuse "I don't know enough English" or whatever because she's taken tons of classes and University classes in Korea and its her fault if she can't do it because she makes everyone do it for her, she needs to learn and I've told Steve multiple times to let her learn on her own but he's such a puss about doing stuff for his mom lol.

She thought he was being totally unreasonable and "kicked" him out but lets get real here, she can't live by herself, she's incapable of living by herself.

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I'm getting even more and more pissed off lately at Steve, only because he's SO FUCKING LAZY, he doesn't want to go out or do anything! I waited 2 hours for him to come to the gym with me and he just put up a pissy little attitude the whole fucking time and he always tells his friends how "active" he is by hitting the gym and playing hockey which is a complete lie, only plays hockey for maybe 15 minutes? might be a 40 minute game but he's not on all the time and he's not even that good of a player anymore because physically he's not what he used to be. Maybe its a combination of stress from work and stress from his mom? Not really sure but he needs to figure out a balance or he's going to implode.

What's great is THEY'RE FINALLY MOVING OUT! The weird thing? His mom doesn't want to tell his dad that they're moving, which I find really weird. I mean its your husband and you don't want to let him know that you're moving your family into a different home? His dad just earned like a thousand respect points from me because he does so much shit for them and this is the kind of treatment he gets. I mean it won't be a big deal if you tell him if you're moving, keeping it a secret will probably be a big deal because, why keep it a secret? That's really freaking weird..

Anyways that's basically it for May, my birthday is in a few days -___-' (and I bet some how it'll be ruined) and my class starts next week, wish me luck!

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What the hell?!

One of the more frustrating mornings I've had in a while... I think I wrote a past blog post in the past about how Steve and his mom are finally moving out, well.. They told me two months ago that they would be moving out at the end of March, now its April and they told me again that they'd be moving out at the end of April and NOW they're telling me they're going to be moving out at the end of May... THE HELL!!!!!!!

WTF I basically have another renter ready for next month (they know this) and then a week before the new tenant (technically she's a previous tenant) has to move in, she wants to sign a lease for 1 year, Steve tells me they can't move out till the end of next month because well his stupid mom not only took too long to find an apartment, she applied for the apartment they wanted perhaps too late, so now they might have to find a new place.

He basically told me "as soon as we get approved we'll be moving right away" they wanted to move out as soon as possible and tell us last minute.. like what the hell, in other apartment buildings you have to tell the landlord or management like a month in advance that you are moving out and you want to let us know when YOU get approved? I don't fucking think so, you had 3 months to find a place, you even flew your sister back to Vancouver to help find an apartment and now your telling us to wait another month?

You wouldn't do this to another landlord so why would you do this to your girlfriend's family?

Back Story:

Steve needed to move into our house cause well at the time he was working full time and he rented a suite that was like $1000 a month but his parents paid for it because he was basically a babysitter for their furniture LOL but they didn't want to pay for it. His wage wasn't that high so he couldn't afford to live there without his parents support.

I told my dad about his situation and one of our tenants in our smaller suite was moving out so he offered that to him FREE OF CHARGE. Steve was like oh that's great cause well he could save money and stuff. Then maybe 6 months later the tenant in the bigger suite moved out and my dad offered that to him for $700 a month cause we were renting that space out for more than that and my parents figured we wanted more privacy.

Then like a year later his mom decides she wants to abandon his dad and come live in Canada for some reason... and since she's lived here its been chaotic. She does whatever the hell she wants whenever she wants and doesn't even care who its disrupting.

So why are they moving? They say its cause when his sister comes back from Montreal they'll need a bigger place which is partially the reason why. The other reason is because apparently its too embarrassing to live at our house, I even talked about this with his friend who told me its some sort of "pride bullshit" <-- his words not mine lol. He says that she's too embarrassed to tell her friends that she rents the basement suite of his girlfriends house so she's been hiding it for like 2 years.

So yeah now that she's working she wants to move out.

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So now I have to email the girl back and basically be like well you can't move in till June now cause these assholes can't get their shit together and want to take advantage of my parents.

I seriously am babysitting them, ever since Steve basically moved in here, we should have raised the rent on them when his stupid ass mom decided she wanted to become Canadian and abandon his dad in Korea.

Frankly I can't wait till they move out, they're probably one of the worst tenants we've ever had and we've had fucking drug dealers live in our house LOL but at least they dealt with their affairs quietly and didn't have to drag my parents into their mess and didn't inconvenience them.

Boys and girls this is why you never rent to your boyfriend who has an idiot mom because:

-They paid rent late nearly EVERY month, the longest that they went without paying rent was 2 weeks and I had to remind them like every day

-They brought Monet into the house and didn't even bother asking my parents about her and didn't pay a pet deposit because according to his mom "your mom loves dogs so its ok" <-- NO FUCK YOU, ITS NOT YOUR HOUSE!

-Monet was not house trained or anything (constant barking, peeing and shitting everywhere in the suite)

-Loud as fuck every day, my dad can hear them all the way upstairs on the other side of the house (we have an odd long house)

-They basically destroyed the kitchen sink

So now we might basically lose a tenant for a year, a really nice tenant who's quiet for these idiots who can't figure their shit out.

At some point they wanted me to look at the application for they had to fill out for the apartment and BOY DID THEY LIE OR WHAT! LOL they didn't even bother putting my parents or my information down for the current landlord in case they need references and they wonder why the apartment management company won't call them back, its like well you gave them a shitty application and now your harassing them on the phone, would you rent a suite out to you?

This morning I had to fucking push them to find a new place cause you know what? They were supposed to move out TWO MONTHS AGO why should I constantly put a better tenant on hold so the shitty one can stay longer? I don't want to babysit them anymore..

Why do I have such bad Karma?

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Here we go again!

So we've been going back and forth about going to the states. I got the Ok from Steve on Friday about us going today and then this morning his fucking mom decides (last minute) that she wants a bunch of shit done and she's so fucking stupid she can't do it her fucking self so she has to make Steve do it. And of course the little puppet is doing what it is told and he wants to leave early to deal with his mom's stupid bullshit.

She knew full well that we are leaving today, she could have mentioned this shit yesterday, or the day before. Nope, she has to spring it up last minute because I guess her little mind processed the fact that she was going to be alone for a few days and she couldn't handle that.

I mentioned in August that his mom was getting pissed off because I wanted to visit my sister and since she wanted to go shopping in the states we might as well go for a visit, she absolutely, unequivocally knew that I won't be able to see her until December and Steve promised me that we would come down now.

Steve and I argued through text messages about why we have to come back early for the simple errands she can do herself and he told me "you won't understand because its a cultural thing" HOW IS IT A CULTURAL THING? EVEN MY KOREAN FRIENDS AT SCHOOL TOLD ME THIS IS ABNORMAL!!!!! and I understand full well your mom is incapable of doing anything beneficial for your family now, its official. Its no wonder why his fathers side of the family absolutely hates her, she contributes nothing but reaps the rewards.

She leaves to Korea on Thursday (hope she gets murdered) and the plan was to stay at Ashley's place till Wednesday morning, like fuck we literally see his mom everyday, Steve does everything for her everyday, HE DID HER FUCKING HOMEWORK FOR HER YESTERDAY! And he went to the store to get a duplicate receipt for her laptop that she lost and did her fucking banking, while she did ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!

How does she expect to care for geriatric patients when she can't even figure out youtube? or google?

Her view on homosexuality is absolutely horrid. She is extremely uneducated when it comes to homosexuality and sex. She said to me "Do all gay people have HIV?" "They're all mentally retarded right?" "they must have a mental condition" "does his dick not work?" "if you have anal sex you automatically get HIV right?" I was absolutely shocked when I heard these words spoken out of her mouth, she seriously flipped out when she found out Anderson Cooper was gay. When she told me all this I told Steve "your mom is absolutely ignorant when it comes to sex and homosexuality and we need to educate her" and he said to me "all Koreans think like that so whatever leave her alone" (<--WRONG!) and then she asks me to ask my homosexual friend's mom to help her get a job when she graduates, umm no fuck you, he owes you nothing especially after basically saying that he's mentally retarded.

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Every week since she started school its "amanda can you edit this for me?" or "can you write this for me?" and "can you read this and tell me what it means?" and she knows that I go to school full time for ACTUAL CREDITS THAT COUNT FOR SOMETHING not for some stupid program that finishes in 4 months with a practicum that is full of people who don't speak or write english well. Grades don't matter in this class she's taking, they're passing this girl that has failed every single exam that should be getting 20% So yeah I don't think it really matters if I edit her crap or not. If I don't do it, Steve ends up doing it.

So basically its like why even go to school if your not willing to do the work? She paid Steve $100 to do her 6 page project on elder abuse and I'm guessing that she didn't learn anything about that. She's like "I got an A" on random projects we did and its like no you didn't we did lol.

Basically we're leaving a day early now, which is fine I wanted to leave on Wednesday (the more time we can spend away from her the better) but a day early is better than nothing and really its not like Steve likes his mom at all, he even told me that. They don't get along, they barely talk to each other unless she wants him to do/give her something and they pretty much have nothing in common besides the fact that they are related. But he insists that he's the son and he has to do these things because its the Korean way and my friends at school (who are Korean) counter-argued that and said that they are the eldest sons and even their mothers don't do these things.

I have a feeling plans will change again real soon, will keep this updated as things progress throughout the day.

I hope to god Karma gets her.

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Whore ~ lol

Holy crap I am super pissed off.

Steve's mom is such a fucking bitch and so is Steve. We went to the states this past weekend because Steve's mom wanted to steal ideas from popular American restaurants so she can recreate them at her own when she has one. I asked Steve if it was ok to go meet Ashley for a bit since I probably won't see her in the next few months since I have to go to school and he doesn't want to go visit her at Christmas because he wants to spend time with his stupid family and he said ok we can go.

We get up early (wanted to leave by 6:30AM) and she takes forever to get ready (obviously cause she's a prissy bitch) but we end up leaving at 7:30AM because she was taking her sweet ass time. We beat the line up because we went into the duty free to buy water (who knew that worked?) and we got to the premium outlet by 10AM. I thought to myself wow we're making pretty good time! We'll probably get to Ashley's by 11:30AM or 12PM. It took her 4 HOURS to buy two pairs of pants and a shirt, she also bought a Burberry jacket for like $600 but returned it because they have no money. Hmm priorities lol at least she has enough sense to return it.

Apparently his mom thought that I was just going to go Ashley's just to say hi and hang out for like 30 minutes and that we'd be on our way. Umm no, I told you the day before that I wanted to spend time with my sister because I probably won't see her till after Christmas. Then she says "ok we're going to go out for lunch for one hour and when we come back we have to go home" I was like WTF and Steve was no help either, obviously he'd side with his mom because he's whipped and can't start an argument with mom or else the apocalypse will happen if she doesn't get her way. So when we actually got to her place she wasn't fucking home, I figured something like that would happen, I didn't really expect her to sit around and wait for us.

So naturally I was pissed off that they both ganged up on me when I told them in advance that I wanted to spend more than one hour of my time with my sister and because I was pissed off Steve got pissed off and was like "don't feel that way" I'm like fuck off how am I supposed to feel? You're the one who told me that we could go see her and when your stupid dumbass mom decides to spend 4 hours shopping for nothing then that's your fault and you should pay the price instead of someone else.

How the fuck can a family be like this? I am at the end of the rope, I can't fucking handle this drama anymore. They're going to say I'm insane because I want to break up with him for being a selfish narcissist with a Oedipus complex (well its more like his mom is in love with him than he is in love with her) Plus he got a date for his polygraph test with the RCMP. They both just can't understand the term "sharing" the original plan was for her to steal ideas from other restaurants not go shopping at the outlet. Obviously I have no choice in the decisions that they make (which are dumb selfish ones). I still can't believe in the "you must obey anyone older than you" rule, times have changed and its time you learned that the world doesn't revolve around you because your "older" I could wrap my head around the idea if she was you know, more humble and sweet instead of being spoiled and selfish.

I just hope the day will come where their family runs out of money and she has to learn how to live by herself instead of relying on someone else. It bugs me that she wants to go to school and then open a restaurant right after, seems so random and someone else can use that seat int he class. she can't stand the fact that she'll have a manager if she works as a care aide. Hope that she cuts the umbilical cord off of Steve too which probably won't happen because she's a bitch and would just freak the fuck out if he ever had his own life without her.

He always says that when he becomes a cop he won't live with his mom but GET REAL she's going to fucking make up a sob story about how the family is poor and not making money and that he's the bread winner in the family and has to take care of his mom that is aging and that she can't work for a very long time or her body will hurt and that his dad's business is failing or some shit. His sister is piece of work too, miniature version of his mom only with education, its only a matter of time before she gets on their moms level.

I know if he'll eventually become an RCMP officer but he'll eventually fuck it up by helping his mom (or Koreans) out in situations where he shouldn't or his rage/temper will get the best of him and he'll do something stupid without thinking it through that could jeopardize his job. You know what his parents said to him once? Basically its ok to arrest everyone else except Korean people because "they are our kind" its like fuck you, you really want a police officer with parents who instill this type of thought in their kids? ummm no.

Talk about a shitty wife too, his mom blew like $5000 on the dog and she tells her daughter to not tell her husband and she doesn't tell him at all that she blew that much. Obviously he'd be upset, I would be too if my wife spent $5000 and DIDN'T TELL ME, not only that she told Steve the same thing. They keep SO MANY secrets from his dad if I were Korean I would tell him EVERYTHING. I feel bad for his dad, has to be married to a bitch wife and sends her money and she lies to him what she's spending it on.

RANT OVER.
I hope Karma super gets this family.

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"Know Your Place"

So Steve went for an interview today and I'm super pissed off lol

He woke up at 6AM to get coffee and breakfast and his mom fucking gets up too to lecture him about how he needs to take care of her when he starts his career, oh no apparently he's not allowed to have control over his life. His dad told him that if he gets this job he will buy him a brand new car (apparently they have money now? wtf? send his mom back!) and he chose an American car and his mom got pissed off because they decided that she shouldn't get one till later and she said that Steve should "know his place" -___-' really?

Apparently being a parent will make you automatically smarter... time to poop out a baby to bring up my IQ lol.

Talk about jealousy, she said "you're a student you shouldn't get an expensive car" (like $25,000, they bought him that lancer which was $30,000 when he was in high school) she's super pissed off that she doesn't get to have a new car now and according to her he needs to save all the money he makes when he starts his career and I mean ALL his money. She wants to keep their joint bank account so that she can take control of his money and she says to him "oh I don't want to spend your money I just want to help you save it" umm.. wtf I have a savings account where I'm not allowed to touch the money unless I call them and it takes them 24 hours to move the money and I'm sure I can put on more restrictions if I want to.

Anyways he did well in his interview and then his mom was freaking out at church boasting about it etc etc.. its kind of funny because before she was pretty embarrassed telling people about him or hardly talked about him and for the past few years his parents have been hardcore pushing sciences/business programs onto him

In case your wondering why I'm pissed off its because I woke up early because they wouldn't STFU and let me sleep -____-' (I went to bed pretty late too like 2:30AM >.<) I get super grumpy when I'm sleep deprived lol.

Now to nap, I'm not sure how much of this will make sense... hahaha real blog post to go up later lol

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April Update Part 2

Sorry for the lack of posts lately...

So... Steve's mom and sister are here...

His sister brought her dog... and then I get the news that his mom wants his sister to concentrate on school so she's making us take care of her dog. FUCKING DID NOT EVEN ASK!!!!!!! Not only that the dog isn't house trained, its not spayed so she'll get her period or something and is super whiny if you leave! 

This is why you shouldn't date an Asian person who's family doesn't live in the same city... make sure they have their own place to live and that their mom isn't inconsiderate -___-'

Not only that we found out that his sister is going back to Korea in July and when she comes back she's going to bring their grandma here to visit minimum 1 month to a maximum of 6!!!!! WTF!!

They want to open a business here in Vancouver, specifically a sushi restaurant... I was like really? Do you know how many sushi restaurants are here?! I don't think they could stand apart from any other sushi restaurant not only that they don't have any experience with working in a restaurant, they want the dad to be a chef and he has never worked in a kitchen ever! I told his sister that they should just open a food truck, seems less risky than paying rent for an establishment and they can change the menu on a daily basis if they wanted to, at least that's what I would do.

For example look at Japadog, they started out with a few hotdog stands and now they have an actual sit down restaurant and they even have a Japadog restaurant in New York!

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Ashley and her husband came up to pick up their friends and we were going to go do the grouse grind but it was closed. So then we had the plan to go run on the seawall instead -____-'

Such a gorgeous day for a run!

But... I didn't end up running LOL, I walked instead. They totally just zoomed passed me.. T_T I need to exercise more lol. Its a good thing we went when we did because it started pouring rain right when we got back to Ashley's mother-in-laws house.

The reason why I didn't run was because I walked some stupid trail to the gym the other day and that took me an hour to get through and my shoes sucked butt plus it was pouring rain, not a good idea. My shoes were digging into the back of my foot and eventually the skin on the back of my foot ripped >.< Yay! lol. Before I got to the gym I was like "oh I'm so lucky my feet aren't wet from the rain" and then I walked into a massive puddle -___-' WTF! lol. My feet dried from being at the gym and then I went to meet my friends at the mall across the street for a cup of tea and I walk into ANOTHER giant puddle that soaked my feet >.< I was not impressed lol.

 When Ashley was here they took me to the foundation restaurant in Vancouver, which is a vegetarian dive like restaurant. Her husband ordered this giant platter which was $12 O_O

Since they're on a diet they don't order crappy food but this place has MASSIVE nachos that I want, so I'm going to go back with Steve and get them lol.

 Ashley's Curry

 I got some quinoa burger thing which was a little dry to be honest but tasted alright 

it was quite big

We also had dinner with Ashley's friends from Montreal that run this company which is worth checking out :D and we ordered tons of sushi >.< which I didn't end up taking a photo of (wish I did)

I always feel bad when Ashley's husband pays for me, one day I'm going to stick like $10,000 somewhere in their house LOL, like seriously I'll put it in one of his shoes or something, its a nice gesture and all but I always feel like a user >.< 

I'll pay you back one day!

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Blog Changes 2013

Ok so I wanted to make changes to this blog before the New Year and that totally did not happen. Now that school has started again its going to be delayed again! >.<

Plus! I haven't been able to post as much as I'd like now that Steve's mom is hanging around the house, obviously I don't want her to find out about the blog since I am (in the words of Spencer Rice) "besmirching her character" lol and he'll probably be super pissy about me writing about him too which I don't really care about, its not like I'm plastering their photos all over the blog anyways and giving out their full names.

So now whenever I am alone or get the chance to go to a coffee shop where there's wifi, I write posts. The self-righteous parent post was written when I was in a Tim Hortons with Steve while he was studying across from me lol and it took me an hour or two to write it, he didn't notice at all.

Sometimes I think Steve knows but I'm pretty sure he doesn't since he hasn't asked about it lol. Basically the only person that knows about this blog is Ashley and her husband LOL, I didn't want to tell my friends because if they read it they would know I'm talking about them lol and plus it seems some of their emotions are out of wack at the moment so I'm not sure how they would comprehend what I write.

Plus I don't think you people are actually reading the crap I write here lol. "Oh its a crap blog, don't want to read it" *presses the back button* sounds right yes? lol

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I guess this year I really want to focus more on beauty/makeup brands that aren't Korean (I've been featuring them a lot) but still affordable, feature some local stores and restaurants here in Vancouver, get in shape unless I get super lazy about it which I think I will lol, post more outfits and I will obviously vent like mad here.

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Back Home

It's already a shit show!!!

One of my parents oldest friends passed away and their funeral was yesterday and SHE WAS THE NICEST LADY EVER! seriously! she was the nicest Vietnamese lady I've ever met and such horrible things have happened to her. My mom always treated her like crap, for some reason the nice lady and one of my mom's shitty friends (we called her goo-ma) were in some sort of feud I have no idea what it was about but I'm betting you that goo-ma is happy that she passed away. My mom and goo-ma would always prank phone call her and say horrible things to her and then hang up and then laugh about it, WTF. It just goes to show evil never dies. I don't know how many times I've wished death upon my mom or goo-ma for being such horrible human beings.

Anyways my cousin emailed me about the funeral and I went to tell my mom what time it was and where it was and my parents just looked at me like oh its not worth it. My dad kept shaking his head and kept saying no and I was like seriously? You've known this lady for more than 40 years, she hooked you guys up and you treat her like this? WTF.

She used to pick up me and my sister at school when my mom would forget to pick us up and she would make us super delicious pho :( she also gave me nice boots once and some clothes. I'm just appalled about how my parents treated her.

The main reason why my parents didn't want to go is because they knew they weren't going to get any money, the reason why my mom went to Colorado is because she knew she would get money from some relatives but she can't take the time to drive 20 minutes to her funeral WTF. Plus my mom was super mad at her daughter for not calling her personally and telling her about the funeral (SHE HAS OTHER PROBLEMS TO DEAL WITH THAN CALLING YOU!) stupid bitch seriously.

My parents are just horrible horrible people.

Just wait till my parents pass away they won't get a funeral just a cremation and I'll probably leave them somewhere and forget about them because they're not worth my time even after death.

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Steve's mom is here but she didn't piss me off yet... she's freaking out at Steve for playing video games and not finishing university because he wants to be a police officer so he chose to go to a criminal justice school to learn about criminology and law enforcement. She's never wanted him to be a cop but to be a robot in an office. He finally got a police interview somewhere and she said to him "if you don't get that job then you have to quit school in Canada and move back to Korea and study there" WHAT AN EXCELLENT PARENT!! SUPPORTING THEIR CHILD'S DREAMS!

WHAT THE FUCK AH?

Seriously what parent does that? Steve doesn't want to work in an office, I understand that Korea's a homogenous society and most people work in an office but she should understand what her son wants and what he doesn't want, instead of coercing him into doing things he doesn't want to do. He's also an adult capable of making his own decisions so he doesn't really need the support of his mom well maybe financially but his mom doesn't work anyways. She'll never see him as an adult, she always says he's too young even though he's 23 and she got married when she was 24 wtf lol.

I don't understand why she would want a Canadian citizenship (besides pension $$$) if she wants her whole family to live in Korea and keep the Canadian citizenship wtf. Can someone please explain this to me? because my mind is just blown from this situation. Steve says he doesn't want to live in Korea at all and if she forced him to he would just refuse but knowing him he would go and tell me later "You don't understand its Korean culture, I have to listen to my parents" he has no balls lol I know he'll go if his parents tell him.

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Holidays

Ah.. Christmas where to begin?

When Ashley and I were little we would hear so much about Christmas from our teachers and classmates at school as well as movies/tv shows. Every year we would put out soy milk and Chinese almond cookies for Santa hoping he would come and give us the gifts we wrote him for. We would stay up late hoping that we could see him... then our mom would yell at us for wasting soy milk and almond cookies lol.

We always had the shittiest Christmas, the only thing we would ever look forward to during the holidays was getting time off school and sleeping in. On Christmas day our parents friends would come over and give me and my sister a gift as well as something for my parents. Me and Ashley would open the gifts and get super excited because we actually got gifts on Christmas, we would play happily with our gifts for a few days until my mom and dad would take them away, re-wrap them and give them to their other friend's kids as Christmas gifts because they were too cheap and lazy to go out and buy their kids gifts (they did this a lot with a lot of our stuff, I miss my bear lol)

Every year after that we never really had a good Christmas, when we got a little older my dad gave me and Ashley $50 to go buy a game we could get on our PC, I remember Ashley getting roller coaster tycoon (best game ever!) and sim city for me. I don't think I've ever had a good christmas, we never had anything good because my mom would freak out over the smallest things or just hurl insults and me (call me stupid and crazy and fat) and when I would ignore her and be super pissy at her and she would be like "why are you being so mean to your mother? it's Christmas!" WTF right?

This year is probably not really an exception, Steve's mom decided to come and stay for a month at our house O_O (last minute) thanks for ruining my time with Steve! he's probably going to move out in February anyways and I had so many things planned for us to do and its like I shouldn't plan anything from now on because people just can't let me have something, I just don't know what to do anymore.

I can't think of a good Christmas I've had without either my parents ruining it or now Steve and his family ruining it.

I know some Korean families don't celebrate Christmas anyways (read about it here) so I get why his mom is coming because its not really a family holiday for them but still I want to spend some time with him, so I guess I'm not going to go on any dates (not like we did anyway!) we can't do it without her hearing us LOL, and I don't get to cook what I want either because she's going to fill the whole refrigerator with nasty Korean stuff that neither me or Steve will eat! I mean its so infuriating that I have my own place and I can't voice out what I want to say without some unreasonable person(s) freaking out at me. Steve's going to Calgary for like a week in February and its not like he's going forever! why the fuck do you have to stay a fucking month? I hope her plane explodes!

Nothing good ever happens to me.

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