Over It

As most of you know, I love to bitch about my shitty parents.

I've really just had enough, they don't listen to reason and think they're the greatest thing ever and just put me down all the fucking time and I'm just done and over it.

I had the mentality of "when my parents get old I'll take care of them because they paid for my education and stuff" but FUCK THAT, they really think they can treat their kids like pieces of shit and then get rewarded for it when they get old just because they paid for education (only college nothing else).

They gave us NO LIFE SKILLS WHATSOEVER they just thought the government and the schools will handle it all. We don't know how to swim, ride a bike, drive a car or anything! I learned how to fucking cook in grade 11! Through a cooking program my school offered. At least Steve's shitty parents gave all of that to them but not our parents, I'm fucking learning how to drive like 10 years after Steve got his license.

Then my mom goes on to say "all of your cousins are better than you because they know how to do drive and do all these things and YOU DON'T" I'm like WTF, MAYBE ITS BECAUSE THEIR PARENTS LOVED THEM AND WANTED THEM TO SUCCEED IN LIFE. Seriously any time my mom had the funds to put us in a extra curricular class or program or anything that can help us boost our education or life skills she'd spend it all at the casino and my piece of shit dad didn't care he was just like "well as long as I'm feeding you, you'll be successful" What an idiot.

I feel so robbed out of my childhood and my life, all of my friends have supportive parents who pushed them into great careers and its given them great life skills and their parents supported them throughout their school careers and work lives and mine are just fucking crazy and abusive (mentally).

They're going to get the consequences of treating people like shit, their ultimate karma, loneliness but I guess they still have each other until one of them dies, I really will not ever forgive them for doing these things to me and Ashley, why should I? They''ll think they're right still because "they had us." I guess its the Asian mentality of "I had you so I'm right and you're wrong because I'm older than you" that bullshit.

I've wished death on my parents for many many years and now I just hope that it comes before I finish school so I can at least have some peace of mind instead of being a hermit at home and not talk to anyone that comes in the house.

I'm just going to try my best to graduate and get my ass out of this house for good and never see them ever again. My cousins, aunts, uncles can guilt trip me all they want about how I should take care of them because they "took care" of me and my sister but fuck that.

I am not rewarding abusers and nobody ever should if their parents treat them like shit.

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Mother's Day

So... mother's day is over, its not like we really celebrate it anyways.. at least at my house.
Its a constant reminder of how much I hate my mom and how evil never dies lol.

If some of you have read some of my random posts about my family you'll know that Ashley and I have a horrible relationship with our mom, we just hate her... I'll explain in a bit if you don't already know.

I thought of doing something for Steve's mom (just like cheap flowers or something lol) but she went out with her friends so w/e don't give a shit lol.

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Now a back story

Since we were little our mom treated us like shit.

She was supposed to pick us up from school when we were like in Kindergarten and grades 1-5 but most of the time she would be at the casino and she'd forget about us. I remember having to walk home from school at like 6 years old (ashley was 8) by ourselves because we waited for her at the school till like 5pm. By that time basically all the teachers went home, I guess people assumed we lived close by or something because we would just play at the playground, otherwise, I'm sure someone would've taken us home instead of leaving little girls under the age of 10 alone. We walked home by ourselves (we literally had to walk 45 minutes to get to our house) Worst part of it all was when we got home we either had no keys because our parents couldn't trust us with them (we had to wait hours for our mom to get home) or our mom was home and she would say "oh I totally forgot about you" like it was nothing. I know some kids can walk home at such a young age but most have nannies or babysitters to pick up your kids after class and it also depends on how far away the school and house are.

I remember shutting my finger in a car door when I was in grade 1 when I was getting out of the car and she yelled at me and said that I was stupid (I was a 6 year old kid, folks) and she didn't take me to see the school nurse or anything she just drove off and left to let the school take care of it (got more stories like this, should start a blog series on them lol)

When we hit middle school I think that's when we realized how big of a psychopath she really was and our relationship separated even further. I had a few "close" friends in middle school and we'd have sleep overs quite often (better than being at home). Eventually our mom would be like "you're only going to sleep at your friends house because you want to have sex with their dad because you're a slut" .... yeah this started when I was like 13 years old, I had it worse off than Ashley (I think... lol gonna have to ask her) and it was about the time when I would just stop listening to her because the shit she said was just plain stupid according to her: "if you don't wear a jacket and you breathe in the cold air, your stomach will absorb the cold air and you will develop cancer and die" LOL

When I stopped listening to her that's when she started saying that I was possessed by demons, I was a slut and I was a drug addict because apparently all white people do drugs so that's why I kept going over to my friends houses after school -___-' and I've never done drugs and didn't lose my virginity till I was in my 20's lol and I'm still with the same guy so yeah, I'm a slut lol. Not sure about the demon possession LOL :P

In High School we argued a lot, I went to my friends house a lot because his family understood what I was going through (his mom had a bad childhood too) stayed there overnight quite a bit (got accused of sleeping around when I left the house in anger but my friend is gay so w/e lol) I don't think Ashley ever went away like that but I did a lot.

fast forward to now and I barely talk to her and when we talk she asks the same stuff over and over or just puts me down. She knows that Steve's moving out with his stupid mom and she keeps saying to me "you know he's just going to find another girlfriend because why would he want you?" "he probably has another girl to sleep with" and when I counter argue (he's moving out cause his sister is moving back to the city and how would 4 people live in a 1 bedroom suite?) she would say "i know him better than you do" "you don't know him like I do" like wtf, really! I just want to punch her.

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Anyways I hope most of you will understand why I hate mothers day and why I don't celebrate it.

Steve's mom is always like "you shouldn't tell people things like that, you should protect your mom" like I give a shit, I've tried to explain it to her so many times about how much I don't care about it and stuff but she doesn't understand, she knows these stories but she still thinks my mom is a great mom. Steve's mom is like a lot of Asian moms who think that because they gave birth to you and paid for your education etc... they're a great parent and you owe them and you owe them big.

If or when I break up with Steve, I never ever want to date a Korean or Asian person ever again unless their family is like whitewashed LOL and I will not let them meet my parents whatsoever.

Otherwise I hope you all had good mothers days LOL and realize how some or most of you are lucky to have a non-crazy mom... hopefully... lol

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"Know Your Place"

So Steve went for an interview today and I'm super pissed off lol

He woke up at 6AM to get coffee and breakfast and his mom fucking gets up too to lecture him about how he needs to take care of her when he starts his career, oh no apparently he's not allowed to have control over his life. His dad told him that if he gets this job he will buy him a brand new car (apparently they have money now? wtf? send his mom back!) and he chose an American car and his mom got pissed off because they decided that she shouldn't get one till later and she said that Steve should "know his place" -___-' really?

Apparently being a parent will make you automatically smarter... time to poop out a baby to bring up my IQ lol.

Talk about jealousy, she said "you're a student you shouldn't get an expensive car" (like $25,000, they bought him that lancer which was $30,000 when he was in high school) she's super pissed off that she doesn't get to have a new car now and according to her he needs to save all the money he makes when he starts his career and I mean ALL his money. She wants to keep their joint bank account so that she can take control of his money and she says to him "oh I don't want to spend your money I just want to help you save it" umm.. wtf I have a savings account where I'm not allowed to touch the money unless I call them and it takes them 24 hours to move the money and I'm sure I can put on more restrictions if I want to.

Anyways he did well in his interview and then his mom was freaking out at church boasting about it etc etc.. its kind of funny because before she was pretty embarrassed telling people about him or hardly talked about him and for the past few years his parents have been hardcore pushing sciences/business programs onto him

In case your wondering why I'm pissed off its because I woke up early because they wouldn't STFU and let me sleep -____-' (I went to bed pretty late too like 2:30AM >.<) I get super grumpy when I'm sleep deprived lol.

Now to nap, I'm not sure how much of this will make sense... hahaha real blog post to go up later lol

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July Updates

Bleeeh.

So tired lately! There's been a lack of updates lately because Steve's sister has been visiting and they've been making me hang out with them "as a family" so we've been site seeing and what not -___-' lol

We went for a brief trip to Whistler (I've never actually been there before) and along the way we went offroading for like 10 minutes lol.

 Think we went to Britannia (from what Steve told me)

Steve's mom likes to pervert cam us LOL. She'll walk really slowly behind us and secretly take photos of us. I left my phone at home one night and I noticed I had 32 messages on my phone from his mom and I was like wtf? She sent me tons of stalker photos lol.

 Us walking around Whistler lol

Me and Steve on the beach in White Rock lol

(creeps me out thinking that she was watching us AND taking photos...)

This is the crappy pizza we got at Whistler (paid $16 for it)

So buy food before you go lol

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I think I mentioned before that his mom bought a 2002 Audi A4 a few months ago (which she picked mainly because its an Audi and she wanted to show off her car even though its an older model) now she wants to get a new car that will save money on gas! I'm like FUCK. OFF. SERIOUSLY.

She was only willing to spend $15,000 before and now she's doubled it to $30,000. So now if she trades in the car that she has (she paid $10,000 for it) its only worth like $4000 - 5,000 because there's major problems that the dealership didn't fix.

Why does she want to get a new car? To save money. SO SMART and she wants an SUV -___-'

WHY THE HELL DIDN'T SHE GET A BRAND NEW ONE IN THE FIRST PLACE?!

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Ashley's mother in law went to the Okanagan for like a week and she left her dog here for my mom to take care of.. Since we have Steve's sister's retarded dog its been hell.

 Here's the stupid dog in Steve's mom's car

(She puked 3 times in the car that day lol)

Sparty (Ashley's mother in laws dog) likes to roam around the house and since we're downstairs Monet (Steve's sister's dog) FREAKS THE FUCK OUT she keeps fucking barking ITS SO ANNOYING! Plus we punish her and stuff but she keeps doing it >.< SO FRUSTRATED! Plus he's scared of water or something because he screams (literally) when the hose is on outside or when you run a bath -___-' yep

One time someone from our neighborhood thought my mom was murdering him because he was screaming and the cops came. When they asked to see him I came out with him and they were like wtf? because he was totally fine and I asked "why are you here?" and they're like "because someone complained that you were abusing the animal and I was like "ooooh! its because he's scared of water or something" and then I turned on the hose and he freaked out lol and the police officers were like "ooooooh HAHHAA" yeah we had a good laugh.

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Yaaay Steve's sister left! I'm starting to think that Steve's mom is getting depressed... the other day she said that she was going to go on a short walk and she came home four hours later drunk... we were like wtf? Where did you go? and she told us that she sat in the car drinking by herself.. and it was the day before Lucia left so we were kind of like that's weird...

Yep so not much has happened this month... As for my position on the waitlist for school I think I've moved up 3 spots for only one class -___-' wtf still pissed off. So I should start making arrangements for September since I probably won't be attending class this September (thanks school >.<)

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It Has Begun

OK Steve's mom is starting to piss me off now lol.

How fucking dependent are you going to be when you have kids AND a husband!?

Ok so... Steve's mom had like a job for two weeks at a sushi restaurant as a waitress and then she quit because she said it was "too overwhelming" I get that it could be for someone who hasn't worked in like 30 years but wtf you know your financial situation and she's got nothing else going on here! Does she really think that one day of not cleaning the house will result in the apocalypse? She only worked 4 hour shifts 3 times a week!

She also expects to be a care aid which is like 100x harder than being a waitress! wtf! I have a feeling that she's going to go to school, get her certificate or whatever and then quit because it'll be too stressful for her -__-'

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We went to the car dealership today because she's been pissing us off the past few weeks because she wanted Steve to find her a new car but HOLY CRAP she is so fucking picky! We found so many good options but she either didn't like the color or the mats in the car or some other stupid cosmetic reason. We test drove a 2010 Toyota Corolla S yesterday that was like BRAND NEW it looked so good, had low kilometers and like a small accident that only damaged the bumper (so nothing major) and it was priced at $14,800 (at the Mazda dealership in North Vancouver) so after tax and documentation fees and all that it was close to $17,000. The smart cookie that she is she offered $15,000 with tax included and everything. Even I knew that the manager wouldn't shave off like $2000 off of that like REALLY, they can easily sell that vehicle for the asking price! WTF

Today we went to the Toyota dealership because she wanted to take a look at some of the used cars there. Ok so she refused to buy mazda 2, mazda 3, honda civic because she didn't want to pay a lot for car maintenance and fuel and then what does she get? a fucking 2002 Audi A4.

My old manager's mom had one and something happened to the engine (the belt or something?) and then it messed up the whole engine so it was either buy a new car or get a new engine that was worth a new car, you tell me what he chose. Yet his mom was smart enough to get one, not only that maintenance on this car I expect will be expensive as well as gas.

Anyways after they buy the car she doesn't even fucking drive it! She makes Steve do it! like WTF!

Are you not getting a car for yourself? Why make your son do it? What's the point in having two vehicles if you aren't going to drive it? Are you that dependent on someone to do it for you?! Or are you just lazy?

I'm so frustrated! Such a lazy dependent woman! I blame Steve and his dad for enabling her to do all this crap!

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Here's something juicy but its a theory not fact but the puzzle pieces fit, I'll just have to wait and see how this plays out.

Steve's mom apparently told him some sob story about her getting abused by her dad right before she came here. Which may or may not have happened, I know its common in Asia especially old fashioned families like his. From what I've heard he's never raised his hand at her before but there's got to be a reason for him to do it. Even so Dr. Phil always says "a man should never raise their hand to a woman, its not a fair/equal fight"

However! If there was any reason for his dad to do it and the reason why she came here, I think, was because his mom was stealing money from his dad and secretly stashing it somewhere and he found out and then she fled the country.

So apparently his dad had full access to her bank accounts previously. Because well she didn't work and she needs money to spend right? What's the point in giving her cash all the time when he can just transfer it online straight into her bank account so she can withdraw it whenever she wants. But months before she came she changed all her passwords so he couldn't get access to them to see how much she was spending he was only allowed to deposit and she cancelled her smartphone too O_O Hmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Since she came here her sister has been secretly sending her money. I thought to myself "If I knew Ashley had kids and a husband I wouldn't want her to send me money because well her family should come first even if they were super wealthy" I'm thinking that her sister has access to his mom's bank account and that his mom has actually been secretly stealing money from their dad these past few months which would make sense because she keeps shit talking about him to Steve (to which Steve believes his mom of course since they have a better relationship) she said that "he's been acting strange" but It strikes me odd that she came here for no reason and now she's doing absolutely nothing... no work, no school just nothing! Take care of her son? pfft yeah right more like alienate and dictate >.<

Not only that Steve is so stupid for enabling her he thinks she's going to just work and live on her own and be independent? He needs to get real.

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Our Mom

I don’t think I’ve ever written a whole post about my mom. I’ve mentioned her in the past but I haven’t dedicated a full post on her.

Many of my close friends know the hatred I have for her and my dad. People that meet them for the first time always think “oh your mom is so nice, I have no idea what you are talking about” or “you’re wrong your parents are such nice people” and it always pisses me off. I mean you meet them what a few times? And you think that you already know the person? Come on seriously, you are talking to their children, people who have lived with them for a majority of their lives and people aren’t going to tell you straight up that they’re crazy.

Think of it this way a pervert isn’t going to fucking tell you they want to touch your goodies right? You shouldn’t expect a crazy person to do the same. My mom likes to manipulate people, why? Sympathy. I have no idea why she wants sympathy, I guess so she can do whatever she wants and they’ll be like “oh just let her do whatever she feels like, she’s had a hard life” -___- really? no fuck off Lol.

The other night I had some wine with Steve and his mom and she says to me “Your parents told me about when she was in a car accident and that she was in a coma for three years” WTF SERIOUSLY. That’s a big fucking lie, my mom was in a car accident that’s it, no injuries sustained only the car was damaged, that’s it. Why the hell do they have to tell people this bullshit? I would’ve told Steve that my mom had been in a coma and that would explain her craziness and he knows that, or at least I hope he does. I seriously can’t believe that Steve’s mom would believe all of her fucking lies, she’s so dumb.

I think Ashley’s mother in law used to think she was normal, at least when they first met but that quickly changed after she took her for a visit at the doctors office. I think they had planned to go have lunch or a coffee together but my mom had to go to the optometrist first.

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Ok before I go on I have to explain. My mom likes to pretend to be super retarded when she goes to the doctor. I always knew this, I think Ashley’s always known this but not other people. She will pretend not to know a word of English and pretend that we (her daughters) are her care aides, wtf. Plus for some reason she has a cane and she uses it only at the doctors, she thinks that if she has enough disabilities then the government will give her more money that she can use at the casino instead of medicine -___-' She also does this thing with her hands where she pretends she can’t open them. The doctor told us he did a x-ray and had specialists look at her hand and found nothing wrong and they couldn’t figure out why her hand couldn’t open -___-‘ wtf.

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At the end of her appointment she walked out and the office assistant says to my mom “you have to pay the bill” she looks at Ashley’s mother in law and says “me no speak English” like she wanted her to pay and she says “lily, you know English perfectly fine, pay the bill” and she responds “me no know” and starts drooling… and every second that they are there she gets more and more messed up! WTF! Now it seems they only talk when she needs a dog sitter and asks my mom to take care of him.

My parents seem to think that Ashley’s husband and his mom owe them a huge favor because she’s getting re-married and they met because of them. -____-' they’re probably going to expect money.

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Let’s begin with our childhood LOL. I swear I need my own Dr. Phil episode. Ahh memories.

I am utterly surprised that we were never taken away by the government when we were kids. I don’t know how many times I thought about running away but I always knew I wouldn’t get really far until I got caught.

Our mom used to like locking us outside when we did bad things

and not let us in until night time

(Ashley's the older one and I'm the baby... still have a big forehead... lol)

At school I never ate anything, the teachers would have to bring Ashley down from her class during lunch to watch me eat because I refused to eat. Why? Our mom would pack our lunch and what was in it usually was two pieces of bread with butter in it… or moldy sandwiches, yum. I remember confiding into my grade 1 & 2 teacher about how my parents would hit usand they just stuck me with a counselor who didn’t do shit. The good days were when our dad would cook us food, I guess he is less evil than our mom lol.

There were a few times when our mom was supposed to pick us up from school but totally forgot and after a few hours of waiting we just ended up walking home, who lets their 8 year old daughters walk home from school?

In Kindergarten I cut my stomach open on a sharp corner of a desk we had in our bedroom because I was trying to climb it lol. Instead of taking me to get stitches or proper bandages, my mom finds some napkins and tape -___-‘ wtf. When I went to school the next day I kept holding my stomach because it hurt and I didn’t want it to fall out. Eventually there came a time when they took us to the gym to let us run around and they noticed that I kept holding onto my stomach and they asked me to move my hand and this huge bloody taped up napkin fell out of my dress LOL. They freaked out but I guess they thought I did it at school, they went to put proper bandages on me, I still have a scar.

My favorite story of our childhood was when our mom got arrested at Wal-mart. She took me and Ashley “shopping” after school one night and Ashley had her backpack. We went into Wal-mart and my mom put on a pair of jeans over her pants and told us to look out and stuffed a whole bunch of shirts/sweaters into Ashley’s backpack. We walked out of the store and there was a store not that far away and my mom was like “oh, look at these sweaters” Ashley took one out to compare and two people approached us and asked her to go with them. I kept telling my mom to just give back the stuff. Eventually they took us to some interrogation room in the Wal-Mart and called the cops.

The cops came, they asked my mom some questions and then eventually they took us to the police station. I was like 8? or younger and I was so embarrassed walking out of that store with the cops and then getting into the back of their car. Then they took us to go talk to our dad which probably was really embarrassing for him too because he was working and his co-workers were probably like wtf is happening?

Then we went to the station and I think they took a photo but I remember seeing them fingerprint her. Then they let us go home. That night I remember my mom sitting on my bed when we were trying to go to sleep and she said “your mom is going to go to jail and its Ashley’s fault because she took the sweater out of the bag and they saw” and I was like what the hell? when you think about it its like WTF YOU BLAMED YOUR LITTLE CHILD ON THE ACTIONS THAT YOU DID? REALLY?! WHAT GOOD PARENTING SKILLS!

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Now our relationship with our mom is basically non-existent, I personally don’t care. I only care when she tries to manipulate Steve or my friends. I don’t bring anyone over anymore. I have one friend that’s a pretty big guy and whenever he used to come over my mom would tell me to make him move furniture around for her and I’m like fuck off, he’s not here to help you move shit, you can pay him and do it or fucking hire someone leave my fucking friends alone. Then she’ll just try to move the crap herself and then start screaming “HELP ME, OH MY GOD SO HEAVY! OW OW OW OW” and my friend knows she’s being like this on purpose so he’ll end up doing it because she’s a fucking bitch and won’t stop screaming.

Ashley doesn’t talk to our parents anymore, she’s lucky she can do that. If I were out of school and financially stable I would leave right now and never look back.

She’s still verbally abusive. She always tells people how I’m really dumb, how I’m ugly and how I’m useless and says that “____ kid is so smart and talented, you don’t know how to do anything” So I basically hate all of her friends because they always talk down to me so I have no fucking respect for them.

People always say there’s two sides to every story but I don’t really think there is an excuse for anyone to treat their children like this. If you can't love them or support them THEN DON'T HAVE THEM!

I told Steve if we got married my parents aren’t aloud to come to our wedding and he says he’s ok with it but I have a feeling his mom will object and I’ll tell him that either my mom goes and I don’t or I go and she doesn’t lol, I think it’s a pretty fair trade.

I wrote something on Facebook like last year about how my mom stole money off my table by breaking into my room and my aunt called to yell at her and what my mom did was freak out and smash dishes -___-' so I am going to assume the same would happen if anyone in my family read my blog.

There are tons of other stories, which I may or may not post we will see.

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It's already a shit show!!!

One of my parents oldest friends passed away and their funeral was yesterday and SHE WAS THE NICEST LADY EVER! seriously! she was the nicest Vietnamese lady I've ever met and such horrible things have happened to her. My mom always treated her like crap, for some reason the nice lady and one of my mom's shitty friends (we called her goo-ma) were in some sort of feud I have no idea what it was about but I'm betting you that goo-ma is happy that she passed away. My mom and goo-ma would always prank phone call her and say horrible things to her and then hang up and then laugh about it, WTF. It just goes to show evil never dies. I don't know how many times I've wished death upon my mom or goo-ma for being such horrible human beings.

Anyways my cousin emailed me about the funeral and I went to tell my mom what time it was and where it was and my parents just looked at me like oh its not worth it. My dad kept shaking his head and kept saying no and I was like seriously? You've known this lady for more than 40 years, she hooked you guys up and you treat her like this? WTF.

She used to pick up me and my sister at school when my mom would forget to pick us up and she would make us super delicious pho :( she also gave me nice boots once and some clothes. I'm just appalled about how my parents treated her.

The main reason why my parents didn't want to go is because they knew they weren't going to get any money, the reason why my mom went to Colorado is because she knew she would get money from some relatives but she can't take the time to drive 20 minutes to her funeral WTF. Plus my mom was super mad at her daughter for not calling her personally and telling her about the funeral (SHE HAS OTHER PROBLEMS TO DEAL WITH THAN CALLING YOU!) stupid bitch seriously.

My parents are just horrible horrible people.

Just wait till my parents pass away they won't get a funeral just a cremation and I'll probably leave them somewhere and forget about them because they're not worth my time even after death.

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Steve's mom is here but she didn't piss me off yet... she's freaking out at Steve for playing video games and not finishing university because he wants to be a police officer so he chose to go to a criminal justice school to learn about criminology and law enforcement. She's never wanted him to be a cop but to be a robot in an office. He finally got a police interview somewhere and she said to him "if you don't get that job then you have to quit school in Canada and move back to Korea and study there" WHAT AN EXCELLENT PARENT!! SUPPORTING THEIR CHILD'S DREAMS!

WHAT THE FUCK AH?

Seriously what parent does that? Steve doesn't want to work in an office, I understand that Korea's a homogenous society and most people work in an office but she should understand what her son wants and what he doesn't want, instead of coercing him into doing things he doesn't want to do. He's also an adult capable of making his own decisions so he doesn't really need the support of his mom well maybe financially but his mom doesn't work anyways. She'll never see him as an adult, she always says he's too young even though he's 23 and she got married when she was 24 wtf lol.

I don't understand why she would want a Canadian citizenship (besides pension $$$) if she wants her whole family to live in Korea and keep the Canadian citizenship wtf. Can someone please explain this to me? because my mind is just blown from this situation. Steve says he doesn't want to live in Korea at all and if she forced him to he would just refuse but knowing him he would go and tell me later "You don't understand its Korean culture, I have to listen to my parents" he has no balls lol I know he'll go if his parents tell him.

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How To Be An Asshole 2012

LOL ok I have no idea why people have been super pissing me off for a while now, maybe because I haven't seen most of my friends in a while and I haven't been able to vent with them (or about them) plus I'm stressed because Steve hasn't cleaned or he cleaned the house really poorly lol but I've been quite on the edge O_O (his mom will say that I'm not a good girlfriend and can't take care of him or myself because I can't clean even though I haven't been home in like a month -__-' slut)

I think I'm an asshole to be honest lol maybe not I don't know.. but in my opinion I am, because I'm lazy lol. Sometimes when I have plans I forget and just take a nap without calling my friends LOL I guess that's pretty much it lol and I blog about how Steve's mom is a bitch... But lately this has been the crap that has pissed me off in the past year and I think you're a super big asshole if you do any of these things lol.

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1. Invite yourself unannounced to somebody's house, eat all their food, use up as many utilities as possible, stay for as long as you want without consulting them, make a mess and then demand that everyone do what you tell them to.

• This is what Steve's mom does! LOL, when she comes she acts like the queen of the world. Because we're younger than her she expects us to bend over backwards to every demand she makes, she hates me because I don't listen to her lol. I'll dedicate a nice blog post on her soon lol.

2. Only hang out with friends that have lots of money who are really inconsiderate or ones that can drive because you don't know how to and refuse to take the bus and never hang out with your good friends.

• This has been nagging me for a while. I have a friend who I consider a good friend or did but he/she has been blowing me off for other "friends" who have a lot of money that they want to take advantage of. Otherwise if that friend had no money whatsoever then they wouldn't hang out with them at all because that person is also not a good friend. I want to warn that friend but I know he/she will just say I'm lying because I rarely hang out with them but I know that they really do want to take advantage of them because they told me they are trying to O_O why am I friends with this person!? lol they just turn into another person when we are all together! such a suck up!

3. Do whatever the fuck you want and not think about the consequences later.

• This one probably appeals to most people lol but most of you won't do it because you would probably get arrested or murdered by some random people. I've come to the conclusion (with some help) that my mom is a crazy asshole lol (ok the people who haven't actually read anything I've written before about her go read it and come back!) Anyways she just doesn't give a shit about what she does (stealing, lying, destroying, speaking, driving) because she knows she can get away with it (and has) because she tells people either she doesn't understand English at all, pretends to be super retarded or she had surgery... This is a long story which I will post about, people have told me that I should write a tv show about her lol.

4. Listen in on other people's conversations and then rudely interrupt them and then give them unwanted advice they don't want to hear and then yell at them for ignoring you.

•  There is this random creepy guy that fucking lives near my house and everytime I wait for the bus or on the bus I'll be either with my friends or on the phone and he fucking just interrupts us to try to join in on our conversations like he's our new best friend, its really annoying and he's a fucking 70 year old man. He freaks out if we tell him to go away or if we don't say anything "your parents are pieces of shit because they didn't teach you idiots any manners" yeah I freaked out at this psycho a few times and tried to call the cops and I've seen him arrested a few times and kicked off buses, skytrains and the seabus. Steve told me he's seen him in the hospital psychiatric ward a few times too lol. In general I think its a asshole-y thing to do, fuck off and listen to music nobody wants advice from a stranger unless they ask for it.

5. Wal-mart (especially North Vancouver's Wal-mart)

• This happened to me a few months ago. I have one item in my hand (a box of tampons lol) and I've been waiting in the express lane for about 10 minutes because the cashier decides to have a long conversation with her friend that is buying 3 items (there's one other person ahead of me) Another cashier turns on their light and waves me over, I point to myself and say "are you talking to me?" and he says yes. So I start heading over there when the cashier I was in the line for in the beginning freaks out at me and says "You have to wait in the line with everyone else!" and I say "oh the guy over there waved me over" and then the security guard that was standing near the door comes up to me and says "nice try" I just got so fucking angry and the cashier that waved me over said "I waved her over" he was in shock lol the other cashier says "she has to wait like everyone else" to which the guy said "she was waiting she was after this woman". I was so pissed off, I waited 10 minutes in line for two people to buy 3-5 items each but the cashier decides to have a conversation with her friend instead of doing her job and then freaks out because some other cashier waved me over.. I was so angry I just left my one item and went somewhere else to buy it, I wanted to punch that security officer in the face for coming up to me like that, but he was like 65 years old and fat so.. yeah lol. But I am never shopping there ever again.

6. Go to a bus stop and push and shove people out of the way to get on the bus first even though you just arrived before the bus did.

• HOLY SHIT lol ok, Me and Ashley were in Hawaii and we were waiting for a bus for about 30-40 minutes, there's a nice line going and everything seems to be in order and not in chaos. Then the bus comes and a random Korean family pushes everyone out of the way and says "ken-chun-ah, ken-chun ah!" they keep screaming it at each other while they were pushing and buttered EVERYONE and made it onto the bus, and I'm like no its not alright! you can do that in Korea but not here WTF!!!!!!!! everyone was so pissed off and they knew it would piss people off too, its not like they weren't going to get a seat anyways and I don't see why they think they have a right to do this! bah! why so inconsiderate!?!

 Yep I was really angry lol

7. Get your friend to pay for dinner and then order as much food as possible or order the most expensive items.

• A few times my friends have taken me out to dinner because I've bought them something or let them borrow a few dollars but I always feel guilty when they do because I feel like they don't really owe me anything. I treated a friend to dinner a few months ago because I borrowed like $20 from him because I didn't have any cash on hand. He knew full well how much I owed him and he said "instead of giving me the $20 why don't we just go out and have a small lunch and you can pay?" I said ok and we went to a restaurant we go to often and we usually order the same thing (sandwich and soup that comes to about $15 per person) but he decides that day that he wants a pitcher of hard lemonade, 3 appetizers, soup and sandwich, a dessert as well as an extra entree to take home for dinner later. I was so angry, I didn't want to say anything because he freaks out over these things WTF. I know his situation with money is not so great these days but he also knows that mine isn't either. This was the first time he ever did it and I told him a few days later that I wouldn't be doing that anymore and that from then on we'd be paying for whatever we order ourselves and that I would just give him the cash instead he says to me "if you offer to pay then you should pay instead of making up excuses for others to pay for you" I was like fuck you! didn't talk to him for a month LOL.

8. When your friend goes on vacation demand a gift or give them money to buy you something you can easily get online.

• Every time I go on vacation my friend says to me "oh what are you going to buy me?" or "I'll give you money so you can buy me X" and it always pisses me off, I'll probably buy you something anyways but you shouldn't expect it, I want to relax when I'm on vacation. When I went to Korea in the summer my friend wanted me to get him some random stuff from there and converted money before even asking me. I was pretty pissed off because not only did he not ask me first and had converted the money (therefore he assumed I would just do it), I have to go out of my way during my vacation to find the store that sells the products he wanted and sacrifice luggage space for him -__-' I mean I didn't pay $1500 to travel halfway across the world to buy you stuffed animals and stationary >.< plus he could've bought all of that stuff online for the same price.

9. Talk down to people because you are older than them but not smarter

• I'm basically applying this to how Asian culture is. Just because you are older than the person doesn't mean that you are smarter and can fucking boss them around. I mean I would think we have passed all of that stupid crap by now but no, stupid Asian pride! get over yourselves! There are tons of super smart, successful people in the world who have accomplished so much. But stupid Asian people talk/look down to them (the Asian ones) because some of them are young, wtf! like my mom for example, my friend has her own successful business that she runs and she's 23 and my mom talks to her like she's deaf or has a mental handicap, its ridiculous! I no longer bring my friends home. For some reason I can never see Asian people overcoming this because they'll just say "its how it works in China/Korea/Vietnam or wherever and its been the culture for X amount of years" and its like ok you can keep your close mindedness to yourself and not evolve like everyone else. Yes I understand its rude not to be nice to your elders but when you haven't accomplished as much as the person your doing it to has then shut the fuck up you've done nothing in your life. Housewives don't count because anybody can fucking poop out a baby and many women work and take care of the family, I find them lazy.

10. Only talk about your own problems and refuse to listen to advice

• My friend always invites me out to go have a coffee with him or dinner/lunch but whenever we go out he only talks about himself and how his life sucks and when I try to steer the conversation to something totally different he manages to turn it around on himself. I've told him a few times that he's narcissistic and sometimes conceited >.< which he just says "bitch please" I even sometimes talk about my problems and he'll just be like "oh it'll be fine, doesn't matter" and then turn the focus back on him its like SERIOUSLY? and usually he'll ask me what he should do and I try to give him advice but he just refuses to listen to it or tells me its wrong, WHY ASK IF YOU REFUSE TO LISTEN!? 

So do you do any of these things? or know anybody that does? This is definitely the tip of the iceberg probably will do another one in 2013 LOL.

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Back Home

Oh god that was the longest car ride of my whole entire life.
My mom is so fucking psycho, I have no idea what the fuck is going on in that mind of hers but I think its happening in my dad's as well.

I haven't been home in almost like two weeks and my mom is going on about how my cousin Tiffany is so much better than me and how she's so good to her mother. I'm like she's only good to her mother because her mother doesn't shit talk about her daughter behind her back nor does she belittle her in front of other people. Plus she has had a way better upbringing unlike mine, I'm sure if our home situations switched I would actually love my parents.

If my mom was home all day to cook and clean for me and help me do homework and teach me things I would probably love her. Unlike mine who would leave me and Ashley in the car for a few hours in a parking lot casino to gamble, steal my lucky red pocket money I would get during Chinese New Year or start calling me a slut at 10 years old for going to my friends birthday/slumber party because she didn't want to waste money buying them a birthday gift. My dad thinks she's still a good mom, I said no and he got mad at me and said I don't know what I'm talking about, if your adult child tells you your mom is fucked up maybe you should listen to them instead of doing whatever is convenient for you.

I really do resent my cousins. They were just given so much compared to me and my sister I find it really unfair, I really do not believe in god if he would give children to such despicable people. My dad is not much better I guess they do rub off on each other, he should've divorced my mom years ago but he said to me "if we had divorced you guys would be messed up because you wouldn't have two parents" O_O BLARGHARGHGHHGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It pisses me off when people say to me "you should be nice to your mom/treat your mom better" and I'm like yeah yeah... but I feel like they have no fucking right to say that. Its easy to tell people to do that because you don't have to fucking deal with it. Your not the one living with someone who would break into your room and steal money or stuff and destroy your expensive clothes. Its easier just to say shit but if you don't have experience first hand about what I'm talking about then I'm not going to fucking listen to you.

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In other news I have to go back to the states again soon because me and Ashley are going to Hawaii :D I'm excited to go but not excited to at the same time because I'm so body conscious I have low self esteem because I've gained weight >.< *sigh* have to start to work out, no bikini photos! LOL

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Arrived in Colorado

What a long day holy smokes.

This morning I woke up at 9AM, I wanted to sleep in longer but then my friend decided to call me for some reason, I can't recall what it was about but we had a 48 minute conversation lol but it was good I had to get up and run some errands anyways.

So I went to the bank today, got some shampoo and bought some travel sized toothpaste as well as some travel insurance. I also had a short lunch with my two friends to catch up, I really wish I didn't have to go but fuck my freaking dad was making me.

So I went home, finished packing and then we headed down to the Seattle airport. At the border my mom airily says to me "I came to this border crossing last month" I was like wtf? because she didn't have a passport and she says "they detained me for 3 hours because I didn't have a passport or ID" and then starts laughing....

Along the way my mom kept bitching about how I shouldn't talk to Steve when we were driving down, I was like wtf we chat all the time he's not a shitty driver that's easily distracted. Speaking about shitty drivers OMG Americans! if you want to drive faster change fucking lanes. This douchebag was tailgating us for 10 minutes and Steve's like "I'm driving the speed limit, if you want to speed change fucking lanes" There was no one else in the other lanes so he wouldn't even have to signal or anything if he wanted to. The asshole then changes lanes and starts flippin out at us. I think I can get a video of this guy because Steve has a black box LOL. I hope he gets murdered.

The traffic was horrendous! we almost missed our flight we arrived 45 minutes before the plane took off. I was glad we were able to make it but my stupid mom got us in trouble with airport security because she fucking wanted to skip the line WTF and I was like no come here and line up and she's like no! WTF baaaaahhh! and the guy was like WTF are you doing? >.< NEVER TRAVELING WITH HER EVER AGAIN!!!!!!!

Then on the plane.. we got to sit separately (hurray!) she sat in the row in front of me and then the whole time she decides to pretend not to know how to speak a word of english and tells the flight attendant:

Flight attendant: Hi, you are seated at a emergency exit seat, if we have an emergency I'll have to ask you for assistance.

Mom: I no speak english but my daughter is sitting right behind me

Flight attendant: Ok.. your going to have to move because if we have a situation you will probably cause more problems

O_O wtf and then when they came around to offer us coffee she freaking tells the flight attendant to ask me if she wants cream and sugar in her fucking coffee I'm like how the hell do I know? (at this point she's now sitting 2 rows in front of me)

but now we're here in Denver to be specific Laffayette (I have no idea how to spell it and I am dead tired) my aunt seems to be holding up ok but she keeps mentioning that she wants to just end her life T_T and my girl cousin speaks to my mom all funny lol like "your good at stuff" "your really good at doing these things" nei hai ho lek ah LOL she speaks to her like she would with a child. My older cousin is kind of quiet but nice. Let's see how the rest of the weekend goes.

I want to leave already not because of my family its just I don't really know anyone here and I just like the comfort of home.

I think I should start a crazy chinese mom diary on this blog lol

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