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It's already a shit show!!!

One of my parents oldest friends passed away and their funeral was yesterday and SHE WAS THE NICEST LADY EVER! seriously! she was the nicest Vietnamese lady I've ever met and such horrible things have happened to her. My mom always treated her like crap, for some reason the nice lady and one of my mom's shitty friends (we called her goo-ma) were in some sort of feud I have no idea what it was about but I'm betting you that goo-ma is happy that she passed away. My mom and goo-ma would always prank phone call her and say horrible things to her and then hang up and then laugh about it, WTF. It just goes to show evil never dies. I don't know how many times I've wished death upon my mom or goo-ma for being such horrible human beings.

Anyways my cousin emailed me about the funeral and I went to tell my mom what time it was and where it was and my parents just looked at me like oh its not worth it. My dad kept shaking his head and kept saying no and I was like seriously? You've known this lady for more than 40 years, she hooked you guys up and you treat her like this? WTF.

She used to pick up me and my sister at school when my mom would forget to pick us up and she would make us super delicious pho :( she also gave me nice boots once and some clothes. I'm just appalled about how my parents treated her.

The main reason why my parents didn't want to go is because they knew they weren't going to get any money, the reason why my mom went to Colorado is because she knew she would get money from some relatives but she can't take the time to drive 20 minutes to her funeral WTF. Plus my mom was super mad at her daughter for not calling her personally and telling her about the funeral (SHE HAS OTHER PROBLEMS TO DEAL WITH THAN CALLING YOU!) stupid bitch seriously.

My parents are just horrible horrible people.

Just wait till my parents pass away they won't get a funeral just a cremation and I'll probably leave them somewhere and forget about them because they're not worth my time even after death.

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Steve's mom is here but she didn't piss me off yet... she's freaking out at Steve for playing video games and not finishing university because he wants to be a police officer so he chose to go to a criminal justice school to learn about criminology and law enforcement. She's never wanted him to be a cop but to be a robot in an office. He finally got a police interview somewhere and she said to him "if you don't get that job then you have to quit school in Canada and move back to Korea and study there" WHAT AN EXCELLENT PARENT!! SUPPORTING THEIR CHILD'S DREAMS!

WHAT THE FUCK AH?

Seriously what parent does that? Steve doesn't want to work in an office, I understand that Korea's a homogenous society and most people work in an office but she should understand what her son wants and what he doesn't want, instead of coercing him into doing things he doesn't want to do. He's also an adult capable of making his own decisions so he doesn't really need the support of his mom well maybe financially but his mom doesn't work anyways. She'll never see him as an adult, she always says he's too young even though he's 23 and she got married when she was 24 wtf lol.

I don't understand why she would want a Canadian citizenship (besides pension $$$) if she wants her whole family to live in Korea and keep the Canadian citizenship wtf. Can someone please explain this to me? because my mind is just blown from this situation. Steve says he doesn't want to live in Korea at all and if she forced him to he would just refuse but knowing him he would go and tell me later "You don't understand its Korean culture, I have to listen to my parents" he has no balls lol I know he'll go if his parents tell him.

What would you do??

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Funeral

The funeral was yesterday.

I woke up at fucking 5AM because my mom's an inconsiderate bitch and fucking turned on all the lights. My aunt was like "why are you up so early?" and then I pointed to my mom and was like WTF lol.

My mom kept ridiculing my aunts outfit saying "You look like an insane person everyone is going to think you are stupid and that you can't dress yourself" Everyone was like what the hell its her husbands funeral, she can wear whatever she feels like. My aunt is wearing a dark pant suit, its not black but she can wear whatever she wants. My mom on the other hand is wearing black yoga pants with a black dress and bright brown/yellow winter boots O_O

I've been given the task by my aunt to remove my mom from the funeral if she goes ape shit lol. I'm like oh fuck she's going to cause a bigger scene. I have my older cousin Andrew to help me with that, he said to me "don't worry I'll knock her out if anything happens" LOL

This is apparently going to be a catholic/military/hawaiin style funeral. So it should be interesting to say the least. I think the last time I went to a funeral was probably more than 10 years ago as far as I can remember, could be sooner but I really can't remember.

My mom's cousins arrived from San Francisco 10 minutes before we left for the church. I've only met the one and he's really nice, he likes Steve a lot. I think my mom was trying to get them to give her money because she was clinging on to them hardcore.

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At the church I helped a little to set up. I cried when they wheeled in my uncles body. It was kind of weird, I haven't seen him in 20 years and I hardly remember him but I still cried.

Beautiful church

It was quite long the ceremony, my cousin Stephen did the rosary prayer thing (I'm not catholic so I'm not sure what the actual term for this is) my other cousin did the second reading and then this guy sang and the priest performed the ceremony. There was one uncle that kept taking photos with flash on and we all thought it was inappropriate lol.

My stupid mom talked the whole time and I had to whisper yell at her lol. When they moved him outside there were two air force people there, why is my english so bad? they folded up the flag in a cool way and gave it to my aunt and there was a random guy in the distance in uniform playing a horn.

They are awesome

There were two rows of seating at the outdoor part of the ceremony for immediate family and my mom decides to take a seat there (it was for my aunt and her two kids and the brothers and sisters of my uncle who passed away) which left one person standing and I was so pissed off, I said to her that seat is not for you its for his family to which I received a reply "My leg hurts, I have cancer, I'm going to die soon) *rolls eyes* I could tell my aunt was pissed at her. But overall it was a really nice ceremony.

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Yaaay! I leave today and I don't have to share a room with my psycho mom! I hate her with a passion.

Soon to Seattle

I know I haven't been posting up stuff regarding skincare/clothes and stuff but I'll probably be buying tons of random stuff from the States so I should be doing a huge post on it soon. I haven't bought anything yet, if anyone has any suggestions I'd be happy to hear them, I'll probably just go to Target and find stuff that I can't buy in Canada.

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The funeral is tomorrow and I leave on Tuesday and I can't wait. The first few days were ok.. my mom was being psycho and shit talking about me to my aunt who was like wtf... and she told her she wanted to see her husbands dead body which we were all like WTF you have no right, so inappropriate.

My cousins all mentioned someone called dai dai, apparently its a ghost spirit that lives in my mom's body... wtf lol. Later on my aunt pulled me aside and said to me "I know a lot of people don't believe in dai dai because it sounds really retarded but you know a lot of people who "meet" dai dai will believe" I don't know man, I'm really skeptical about this lol I do believe in ghosts and spirits and stuff but this just sounds so farfetched. My mom lies and manipulates people all the time so why should I believe this?

My two cousins from Denmark arrived yesterday and my oldest cousin brought his wife and baby. His brother is really really weird, I hope in a sarcastic way or he's totally into incest... O_O LOL. He told me he hates his brothers wife but I actually think she's funny and their baby is sooo cute!!!

ADORABLE!!

All of my aunts neighbors keep bringing food over as well as my cousins friends. I can tell their family is quite loved by the community. My mom was like "wow people here are so nice, why would they bring food here? they're so nice" I was kind of like really? wtf lol I told her not to expect that when she dies because many people know her as the psychotic Chinese woman lol plus she just terrorizes people instead of being nice to them. My aunt hasn't been eating much or sleeping much, she keeps saying she's not eating because she has to watch her diabetes and that she's taking sleeping pills.

They freaking made me share a room with my mom and I was so pissed off because I don't want her touching my shit and she fucking snores so loud. I actually made a video lol I'll post it later but here's a photo of her sleeping in the car.

She wore so much padding and a fanny pack to the airport >.<

I think out of all my cousins I'm the outcast because none of my aunts talk to my mom. I have them on facebook and stuff but we don't really talk. We even witnessed my mom beating up a pomegranate yesterday. We all agreed my mom is the craziest out of all the sisters and then the one in France LOL.

She stabbed a straw into it after she beat it up to drink the juice lol

 I haven't really done much since I've been here. I think my dad fucking tricked me into going with my stupid mom. I'm going to freak out at him when I get home and be like you douchebag!!

I think if I want to see my cousins again I'd rather see them one on one than with my mom because she is too insane. Colorado is a nice state, when it sunny its quite warm. I just don't like it when its windy and things are just too spread out for me. It reminds me of Edmonton here lol because its so flat and dry. I really need to get my hair cut, the ends are soooo dry and I have so many split ends. I think I'll get a hair cut in Seattle, probably nothing fancy just a trim.

*sigh* I'm really tired and I have to shower because there are 15 people in the house and I don't want to rush tomorrow. My mom's having a weird conversation about when people die they go into their/their spouses wombs and get reborn -___-' wtf lol

Off to Seattle in two days, I can't wait :D

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Pre-Vacation Prep

Meeeoooow

Preparations are under way for my unexpected visit to the US tomorrow.

I really did not want to meet my cousins as adults this way but I am going to their father's funeral T_T it was a really unexpected tragedy and happened sudden so I want to be there at least to say hello and offer my support. But I would've preferred to have went by myself than with my mom.

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I don't think I've mentioned this before but my mom is a psychopath... lol. She doesn't think like a normal person. She's really manipulative and a compulsive liar. Plus she has gambling issues and dementia but we'll get into that later LOL (true story).

We had to get my mom a new passport to go to the funeral (in Colorado) My stupid parents don't know how to fill out the freaking form so I had to do it and it turns out my dad gave me the wrong form. Its that time of year where everyone is traveling so they decide to renew or get their passport last minute >.< so there's a huge line up.

I had to wait about 40 minutes for the pre-screening passport form line three times! because my dad gave me the wrong form. Then I got Steve to fill out the right form at home and get my mom's ID's and signature and bring it back because I didn't want to go home and then come back. You know when you sign a government document and there's a box for you to sign and there's a grey space that says "void if written in grey area" my mom had to sign that fucking paper like 10 times because she's fucking stupid and kept signing in there!

Anyways I waited in the line the second time for 40 minutes (again) and then they told me for express pick up my mom would have to be there. I was so pissed off they could've told me that the first time and when I told my mom that we'd have to go on the Tuesday to the passport office she was all pissed off "you did it wrong on purpose because you don't want me to be happy" so stupid wtf!! You think I wanted to wait 2 hours in the fucking line and waste my time on purpose just to make you unhappy? ridiculous!

Then on Tuesday we went downtown to the passport office. I told her which direction to drive and when we got close I told her to look out for a parking space. What does she do? drive as slow as possible downtown with traffic behind her and when we were supposed to stop at a red light she keeps driving and almost kills 5 people until I yelled for her to stop. It went like this:

Me: STOP STOP STOP STOP!!!!
Mom: Shut your mouth, you want me to fucking get into a car accident?
Me: You will get into a car accident if you don't fucking stop at a red light!
Mom: You don't fucking know anything

Good job Canadian Government for giving back her drivers license you really did a huge favor to the public instead of giving her a fucking memory test maybe you should've given her a standard driving test wtf.

Anyways we found a parkade downtown to park in. My mom likes to pretend that she's handicapped when she goes to the doctor and acts super retarded because she thinks the government will give her money, instead they gave her a handicapped parking thing. So we were looking for a space and then she goes "Oh there's a space" and points to the only handicapped space that can only fit a small sedan (we have a fucking venza) I told her no because the car is way too big and if she did park there it would block anyone that wants to park in the parkade or anyone that wants to leave it, then she freaked out. Bleh.

At the passport office she tried to budge the line and told the security officer "my leg hurts, I can't stand for very long" *rolls eyes* then she starts bitching to me about how I should've gotten her passport done earlier. I told her "this is the last time I'm helping you with anything" fuck.

We finally get to the counter and the guy asks me the general questions like when are your travel dates, who is this for, etc etc... I'm answering them and my mom goes "my sister just die I need go US very fast" and then I told the guy we would prefer express service if she qualifies and then my mom goes "Shut your mouth, don't fucking say anything" the guy then is like WTF because he totally understood her (she said it in chinese) lol, bipolar much?

Anyways we got everything done and on the way out of the parking lot we had to pay and then my mom freaked out because she thought it was too expensive. It was $13, its expensive because its downtown (I paid).  She freaked out at the guy and said that because the parking lot attendant was of Indian decent he purposely overcharged us... blah and then she started swearing at him and she demanded that I give her the receipt so she can sue him. DA FUCK. I am not looking forward with traveling with her.

I wished that instead of my uncle passing my mom would've went instead. But as my friend says "evil never dies"

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Well I've never been to Colorado before so it will be an interesting experience, I think I will purposely make it so I don't sit with my mom on the plane LOL.

In about 3 weeks (give or take?) I will have a real vacation to Hawaii with Ashley :D Should be interesting since I've never actually traveled anywhere with my sister lol. I was trying to lose weight for the past few months and then I abruptly got off the pill and then gained tons back, WTF!!

I really didn't expect this trip either, I feel really bad about it.

Bleh this post is really lacking any photos, I'm just going to put random photos of food up. hahaha.

 Me and my friend found this place randomly downtown.

I think its called the noodle bar? or something..

we were heading to Japadog and walked past this place and was like

"oh we haven't been there before, and there's lots of people"

This is their seafood curry noodle in soup LOL I have no idea what its called but I know it had the word seafood in it. It has fish cakes in it, 

was pretty good but I was so full already so I couldn't finish it.

 I think from now on I'm just going to order two sides because that's what my friend did.

This is eggplant with soy sauce and peanut butter sauce.

I'm not a huge fan of eggplant, this was alright but I wouldn't order it because of the eggplant lol.

Spicy wontons! so gooood

Deep fried chicken balls with sugar cane.

THESE WERE SO GOOOOOOOOD!!! lol they were surprisingly light

and they had huge flavor O_O

 so much food for two people, I thought we would share the noodles and then my friend goes

"oh yeah I forgot to tell you I hate curry" da fuck lol

 The wait staff brought him the wrong dessert lol

 Random shots of the restaurant

The front had tons of people, I guess cause lunch time was ending people started to leave

Sigh there's still much to do at home >.<

I have to:
- Do the dishes Steve sucks and won't clean

- Do the laundry

- Go to the bank

- Pack

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