It Has Begun

OK Steve's mom is starting to piss me off now lol.

How fucking dependent are you going to be when you have kids AND a husband!?

Ok so... Steve's mom had like a job for two weeks at a sushi restaurant as a waitress and then she quit because she said it was "too overwhelming" I get that it could be for someone who hasn't worked in like 30 years but wtf you know your financial situation and she's got nothing else going on here! Does she really think that one day of not cleaning the house will result in the apocalypse? She only worked 4 hour shifts 3 times a week!

She also expects to be a care aid which is like 100x harder than being a waitress! wtf! I have a feeling that she's going to go to school, get her certificate or whatever and then quit because it'll be too stressful for her -__-'

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We went to the car dealership today because she's been pissing us off the past few weeks because she wanted Steve to find her a new car but HOLY CRAP she is so fucking picky! We found so many good options but she either didn't like the color or the mats in the car or some other stupid cosmetic reason. We test drove a 2010 Toyota Corolla S yesterday that was like BRAND NEW it looked so good, had low kilometers and like a small accident that only damaged the bumper (so nothing major) and it was priced at $14,800 (at the Mazda dealership in North Vancouver) so after tax and documentation fees and all that it was close to $17,000. The smart cookie that she is she offered $15,000 with tax included and everything. Even I knew that the manager wouldn't shave off like $2000 off of that like REALLY, they can easily sell that vehicle for the asking price! WTF

Today we went to the Toyota dealership because she wanted to take a look at some of the used cars there. Ok so she refused to buy mazda 2, mazda 3, honda civic because she didn't want to pay a lot for car maintenance and fuel and then what does she get? a fucking 2002 Audi A4.

My old manager's mom had one and something happened to the engine (the belt or something?) and then it messed up the whole engine so it was either buy a new car or get a new engine that was worth a new car, you tell me what he chose. Yet his mom was smart enough to get one, not only that maintenance on this car I expect will be expensive as well as gas.

Anyways after they buy the car she doesn't even fucking drive it! She makes Steve do it! like WTF!

Are you not getting a car for yourself? Why make your son do it? What's the point in having two vehicles if you aren't going to drive it? Are you that dependent on someone to do it for you?! Or are you just lazy?

I'm so frustrated! Such a lazy dependent woman! I blame Steve and his dad for enabling her to do all this crap!

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Here's something juicy but its a theory not fact but the puzzle pieces fit, I'll just have to wait and see how this plays out.

Steve's mom apparently told him some sob story about her getting abused by her dad right before she came here. Which may or may not have happened, I know its common in Asia especially old fashioned families like his. From what I've heard he's never raised his hand at her before but there's got to be a reason for him to do it. Even so Dr. Phil always says "a man should never raise their hand to a woman, its not a fair/equal fight"

However! If there was any reason for his dad to do it and the reason why she came here, I think, was because his mom was stealing money from his dad and secretly stashing it somewhere and he found out and then she fled the country.

So apparently his dad had full access to her bank accounts previously. Because well she didn't work and she needs money to spend right? What's the point in giving her cash all the time when he can just transfer it online straight into her bank account so she can withdraw it whenever she wants. But months before she came she changed all her passwords so he couldn't get access to them to see how much she was spending he was only allowed to deposit and she cancelled her smartphone too O_O Hmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Since she came here her sister has been secretly sending her money. I thought to myself "If I knew Ashley had kids and a husband I wouldn't want her to send me money because well her family should come first even if they were super wealthy" I'm thinking that her sister has access to his mom's bank account and that his mom has actually been secretly stealing money from their dad these past few months which would make sense because she keeps shit talking about him to Steve (to which Steve believes his mom of course since they have a better relationship) she said that "he's been acting strange" but It strikes me odd that she came here for no reason and now she's doing absolutely nothing... no work, no school just nothing! Take care of her son? pfft yeah right more like alienate and dictate >.<

Not only that Steve is so stupid for enabling her he thinks she's going to just work and live on her own and be independent? He needs to get real.

What are your thoughts?

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Midterms/Relationship rant

Very wordy post.

BRAIN EXPLOSION!
I totally procrastinated and am studying last minute for my exam.
I've crammed in 2 chapters of biology into my head already and I have 2 more to go and I feel so confused! I should become religious and stop believing in science because its just too much :P

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Last night I was studying really hard and was getting pissed off because the house was so messy. Steve came home from school and as soon as he did he just went onto his computer to play games. He has a midterm tomorrow (mine is today) so I asked him to clean the dishes because I was studying. It took him 6.5 hours to finally get up and wash them (he was playing sudden attack and an mmorpg with his friends during that time) at 2AM he gets up and does it. He knows if he doesn't do them I will eventually but I yelled at him lol.

I really don't ask for much around the house except take out the garbage because its heavy. In the past 6 months he's washed dishes 3 times so I'm kind of like wtf get up and clean! I have a midterm worth 30% of my mark!

Its no wonder his mom wants him to move out and become more "independent" (aka live with her so he can do all the errands for her)

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It just blows my mind on how selfish some people can be. I usually buy the groceries and cook and clean and he does nothing (drive?) lol When I get overwhelmed I ask him to clean, it just takes a century for him to do it.  Its no wonder because he's used to his mom and sister doing all the housework.

His mom thinks that its the other way around and that he does everything and I just hang out... wtf. I remember when she came to visit last time and she got super pissed off at me because I turned off the lights she wasn't using in various rooms and it was like 10AM and she tells him that I have rage issues and that a normal person doesn't get as angry as much as I do.

I do things for a reason, I don't purposely go piss off people for no reason unless they piss me off first. Like the light thing, its 10AM!! who needs to turn on ALL the lights in the house when its nice and sunny out, what a waste of energy! open the curtain! she said that I had to consult her first before turning them off. Just who's house is this? your visiting! be considerate!

Plus the whole living situation thing, His mom is making him move out because she says she wants more control in the house and that when she stays here that she has no control and that my parents boss her around (err.. my mom just asks you if you want to go swim and my dad works all day) and that she says that Steve eats really unhealthy food because we have cans of soup (we don't eat them everyday wtf, we only bought them because they are cheaper in the states) Plus she's making him move right beside her best friend's place, convenient place for her right?

She says to me "You guys can date but marriage is not an option nor is living together 
(where was this a year ago when your son moved into our house? should've said something then!),
 your not Korean, you don't know Korean culture, You don't speak Korean. Marriage is about the joining of two families how are you going to do that if you don't understand Korean culture?" WTF then she bitched at me about not hanging out with his cousins when I was in Korea. Ok.. I hung out with them a few times and its my vacation too not just his. When my cousins were here Steve never hung out with mine, so fuck you!

Steve doesn't speak Cantonese and my parents don't give a shit. I grew up in Canada! I'm so freaking whitewashed! why do I have to put all the effort in to "become Korean" Shouldn't it be a mutual effort?

Seriously considering dating someone else if he doesn't do anything, who's mom does this? you would think she would be grateful because he pays like NO RENT and SHE STAYS FOR FREE.

I know his dad is unemployed right now and that she doesn't work so wtf. Go ahead and go out and pay $950+ for rent plus utilities lol. I know its eventually going to get to the point where his dad runs out of money and tells steve to quit school and work so he can pay the rent just like last time.

They're just excuses because they want full control of the kids. They want him to have a wife that will obey his family. In their family his parents happiness comes before their children's which apparently is normal for Koreans? according to his friend.

I remember chatting with his sister a few weeks ago and their mom wanted her to get rid of Facebook because their mom's friends daughter was engaged to this guy but he broke it off because his family found out that she had a previous relationship that was posted on Facebook. WTF who cares?! and that their mom wants her to break up with her boyfriend because he studies art again wtf! who cares? they don't mind when he buys her expensive things!

At the end of the day his parents just want to look good in front of other people. Its funny because they don't tell anyone his dad is unemployed and that her son lives with his girlfriend its better to be honest than lie to your "Friends."

Korean people is this normal?!
I heard from some of his friends this is really abnormal.
comment comment because I have no idea what to do/say anymore to get through to him!

rant rant rant rant...!
I'm so gonna bomb this exam!

PRIDE!!!