January Updates

 Foggy school day

 Its been a while since I wrote a post >.< My bad! I've been super busy with school this semester. I've picked up way more classes than last semester so most of my time has been dedicated to that.

 Psych Class lol

You know what's funny is that I'm taking a Computer Science class at school and one of the projects is to start your own blog LOL and I was like umm.. I don't want to say anything to the prof :P lol

I had my first exam on friday (24th) for psychology and I think I totally bombed that exam T_T SO HARD WTF!!!!!!!!

If you follow me on Instagram (probably not I don't have many followers :P) I've been spamming the shit out of this one photo for a raffle by Ravish Sands because I want Ashley to win a suit by them for an upcoming show she's doing lol. So, sorry about that! lol

I'm changing up my skincare routine this week since I'm pretty sure I've gotten the most use out of the products I have been using. Its gotten to the point where these products aren't really doing anything for my skin anymore. So its time for an update!

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 Monet

Lately Monet has been acting up and barking nonstop its super annoying and I know its pissing off everyone in the house. At times like this I wish they sent her back to Montreal >.< such a bratty dog.

I don't think I put up any New Year resolutions :P lol come to think of it I don't think I fulfilled any from last year LOL ... actually I don't remember what I put for last year lol

This year I want to:

- Learn to drive (lessons on Sunday!)
- Pass all my classes lol
- Lose some weight lol

Bazaam! That doesn't sound too hard.. start out small lol

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The Self Righteous Parent

Everyone deals with people like this
There's no reasoning with that person because they just either don't believe you or they have such strong beliefs of their own that their perception of the situation is so warped that their way of thinking is not straight on and doesn't make sense

Steve's mom has been here since the 26th of December (as I've mentioned before) and she's caused so many fucking problems already. I don't know if she has a mental issue or she's just fucking inconsiderate (probably both) but something is definitely not right there.

For two days now she's been freaking out at him for failing his cbsa exam (border services) and not getting a job (this was like a year ago) and he is still going to school. She keeps ridiculing him for not staying in university and said to him if he doesn't get the job he's going for in February then he has to quit school in Canada and live in Korea, wtf.

"Everyone else has kids who have finished university and are looking for jobs what are you doing? wasting your time with your friends"

Its not like he isn't trying to get a job I mean he's a student at JIBC, he's also applying for jobs and works part-time. Its not that he's fucking lazy I think he is entitled a few days off, especially on his birthday (it was his birthday on new years day).

I have to say, if you don't get a job it doesn't mean you have to move halfway across the world to study english (he's fucking fluent lol) and compared to Canada, Korea is probably not the best place to study english, probably engrish.

Plus you don't move someone halfway across the world because they didn't get a job, maybe if they were addicted to drugs and you want them to go to rehab and not have access to the environment they were in wtf lol.

"I'm your parent and you should do what I say"

Every time a friend of mine tells me that their parent has said this I get angry. Just because you are a parent doesn't mean you are a good one. Anybody can be a parent (for example a 12 year old girl that got accidentally pregnant) but not everyone is a good parent.

To me Steve's mom has the maturity of a 15 year old girl, and if she doesn't get what she wants she calls daddy (aka Steve's dad lol) She was never ready to have kids and still isn't.

I have to be honest, Steve isn't the best human in the world lol, his parents have warped his mind a little bit but he is slowly adapting to the culture here but I know some things in his mind will never change or will slowly change. If you don't adapt to the world then you will be the outcast

"I'm your parent so you have to give me money and I have to live with you when I am old"

I'm serious about this: If your parent ever tells you that you owe them something (money, making you let them live with you) then they are pieces of shit. I'm fucking serious, you don't owe them ANYTHING. If your parent only had you to take care of them when they're older what does that say? basically they had you for their own selfish needs. Its not a right/obligation to have kids, just because you can it doesn't always mean you should.

Somebody told me: In Korea, before you get married you have to live with your husbands parents for a month or two so their mom can teach you how to be a good housewife. Because the man has to take care of the family by providing the money.

So I blame his mom for his faults LOL

I told Steve if his mom continues to say these things then I'm going to have to ask her to leave and not come back to the house and if she refuses then I'll call the cops. At this point and time Steve is ok with that.

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Midterms/Relationship rant

Very wordy post.

BRAIN EXPLOSION!
I totally procrastinated and am studying last minute for my exam.
I've crammed in 2 chapters of biology into my head already and I have 2 more to go and I feel so confused! I should become religious and stop believing in science because its just too much :P

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Last night I was studying really hard and was getting pissed off because the house was so messy. Steve came home from school and as soon as he did he just went onto his computer to play games. He has a midterm tomorrow (mine is today) so I asked him to clean the dishes because I was studying. It took him 6.5 hours to finally get up and wash them (he was playing sudden attack and an mmorpg with his friends during that time) at 2AM he gets up and does it. He knows if he doesn't do them I will eventually but I yelled at him lol.

I really don't ask for much around the house except take out the garbage because its heavy. In the past 6 months he's washed dishes 3 times so I'm kind of like wtf get up and clean! I have a midterm worth 30% of my mark!

Its no wonder his mom wants him to move out and become more "independent" (aka live with her so he can do all the errands for her)

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It just blows my mind on how selfish some people can be. I usually buy the groceries and cook and clean and he does nothing (drive?) lol When I get overwhelmed I ask him to clean, it just takes a century for him to do it.  Its no wonder because he's used to his mom and sister doing all the housework.

His mom thinks that its the other way around and that he does everything and I just hang out... wtf. I remember when she came to visit last time and she got super pissed off at me because I turned off the lights she wasn't using in various rooms and it was like 10AM and she tells him that I have rage issues and that a normal person doesn't get as angry as much as I do.

I do things for a reason, I don't purposely go piss off people for no reason unless they piss me off first. Like the light thing, its 10AM!! who needs to turn on ALL the lights in the house when its nice and sunny out, what a waste of energy! open the curtain! she said that I had to consult her first before turning them off. Just who's house is this? your visiting! be considerate!

Plus the whole living situation thing, His mom is making him move out because she says she wants more control in the house and that when she stays here that she has no control and that my parents boss her around (err.. my mom just asks you if you want to go swim and my dad works all day) and that she says that Steve eats really unhealthy food because we have cans of soup (we don't eat them everyday wtf, we only bought them because they are cheaper in the states) Plus she's making him move right beside her best friend's place, convenient place for her right?

She says to me "You guys can date but marriage is not an option nor is living together 
(where was this a year ago when your son moved into our house? should've said something then!),
 your not Korean, you don't know Korean culture, You don't speak Korean. Marriage is about the joining of two families how are you going to do that if you don't understand Korean culture?" WTF then she bitched at me about not hanging out with his cousins when I was in Korea. Ok.. I hung out with them a few times and its my vacation too not just his. When my cousins were here Steve never hung out with mine, so fuck you!

Steve doesn't speak Cantonese and my parents don't give a shit. I grew up in Canada! I'm so freaking whitewashed! why do I have to put all the effort in to "become Korean" Shouldn't it be a mutual effort?

Seriously considering dating someone else if he doesn't do anything, who's mom does this? you would think she would be grateful because he pays like NO RENT and SHE STAYS FOR FREE.

I know his dad is unemployed right now and that she doesn't work so wtf. Go ahead and go out and pay $950+ for rent plus utilities lol. I know its eventually going to get to the point where his dad runs out of money and tells steve to quit school and work so he can pay the rent just like last time.

They're just excuses because they want full control of the kids. They want him to have a wife that will obey his family. In their family his parents happiness comes before their children's which apparently is normal for Koreans? according to his friend.

I remember chatting with his sister a few weeks ago and their mom wanted her to get rid of Facebook because their mom's friends daughter was engaged to this guy but he broke it off because his family found out that she had a previous relationship that was posted on Facebook. WTF who cares?! and that their mom wants her to break up with her boyfriend because he studies art again wtf! who cares? they don't mind when he buys her expensive things!

At the end of the day his parents just want to look good in front of other people. Its funny because they don't tell anyone his dad is unemployed and that her son lives with his girlfriend its better to be honest than lie to your "Friends."

Korean people is this normal?!
I heard from some of his friends this is really abnormal.
comment comment because I have no idea what to do/say anymore to get through to him!

rant rant rant rant...!
I'm so gonna bomb this exam!

PRIDE!!!