Showing posts with label care aid. Show all posts
Showing posts with label care aid. Show all posts

Thursday, March 20, 2014

They're Moving!

HOLY CRAP!

THE DAY HAS FINALLY COME well not exactly but its going to be happening soon, Steve and his mom are finally moving out of our house! ^____^ !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! wooooo!

Ever since his mom came back to Canada its been hell for all of us, she's soooo needy! She tries to play it off like she's the quietest, most understanding, least resource consuming person in the house but its total opposite of that >.<

we had the highest water/electric bill we've had in years ($600!!! wtf!) double from last year and I automatically knew that it was his fucking stupid mom because I know she uses the most water and electricity in the house. She would leave all the fucking lights on and then leave the house! wtf! and when she showers she'll leave it running while using the sink to brush her teeth or w/e, and its like wtf do that shit first then shower! She tried to blame my parents for it and I was like wtf? Its not like they're asking you to pay for it, they're just telling you to use less water and turn off the fucking lights. But she got overly offended when we told her to limit the usage of water and electricity. -___-'

Lately she has been stressing the shit out of Steve, he's grown TONS of white hairs. Its mainly her asking him to do stupid shit for her that she can easily do but she decides to be fucking lazy. This morning she got upset at him and threw his bag, backpack and tool box at the door, blocking it... why? Because he wouldn't send a fucking email to her friend LOL WTF!

all because he wouldn't send an email

Oh and its his only day off during the week since he works and goes to school (works 4 days a week and goes to school 4 days a week) So I try to let him sleep in as much as he can but she woke him up at 9AM to delete one sentence off her resume and to send an email to her friend.

 Lol I had to block out his face
He grew tons of white hairs

I'm so fucking frustrated at her because these things she can easily fucking do for herself, and I'm pretty sure she knows how to do this shit, she's just being lazy. She should fucking learn to let him relax at least one day a week like WTF such a selfish woman she doesn't even think about her kids. I think she's one of those Asian parents who think that if you give them money/buy them stuff that means they automatically owe them something.

Ever since she "graduated" from her care aid program she's been desperately searching for an apartment to rent with Steve and his sister LOL. I put "graduated" in quotes because she didn't do ANY of her homework assignments and made us do it for her. She's been constantly harassing us all to write her a cover letter and resume and she actually flew out his sister for 3 days to write her resume and cover letter -___-' but I guess all her "hard work" finally paid off because she has an interview at the Lynn Valley retirement home, which I think she will get the job and then I will lose faith in humanity lol.

Anyways, the sooner they move out, the sooner I don't have to deal with her narcissism -__-'

Never in my life have I met someone like his mom, I even told Steve that when they leave I don't want to visit/see her for like many many years LOL. All of our friends (as well as my parents) have said that Steve is going to die young because his mom won't let him live his own life and he's going to stress out and die.

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They've had a few arguments this month mainly because she doesn't want him to play video games on his down time and she wants him to study more lol (he doesn't play excessively like he did before) but it got to the point where she just won't shut up about it and she called him selfish! LOL OMG! I was like are you kidding me?! He was like WTF, he got so angry, he confronted her about her selfishness and left the house for a few hours, she wasn't even upset about it at all.

Steve hates it when we talk about his family, he really doesn't want people to think he comes from a dysfunctional family but he really does but who am I to judge? My mom's super psycho because she's got dementia and shit and my dad cares about his kids and all but he doesn't really care about how badly our mom treats us.

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I want to break up with him because of his mom lol but he's a good guy in general he's just on tons of stress and I hate seeing him like this and if he moves out its just going to get worse, so good luck to him.

He's really going to need it.


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Sunday, December 15, 2013

Here we go again!

So we've been going back and forth about going to the states. I got the Ok from Steve on Friday about us going today and then this morning his fucking mom decides (last minute) that she wants a bunch of shit done and she's so fucking stupid she can't do it her fucking self so she has to make Steve do it. And of course the little puppet is doing what it is told and he wants to leave early to deal with his mom's stupid bullshit.

She knew full well that we are leaving today, she could have mentioned this shit yesterday, or the day before. Nope, she has to spring it up last minute because I guess her little mind processed the fact that she was going to be alone for a few days and she couldn't handle that.

I mentioned in August that his mom was getting pissed off because I wanted to visit my sister and since she wanted to go shopping in the states we might as well go for a visit, she absolutely, unequivocally knew that I won't be able to see her until December and Steve promised me that we would come down now.

Steve and I argued through text messages about why we have to come back early for the simple errands she can do herself and he told me "you won't understand because its a cultural thing" HOW IS IT A CULTURAL THING? EVEN MY KOREAN FRIENDS AT SCHOOL TOLD ME THIS IS ABNORMAL!!!!! and I understand full well your mom is incapable of doing anything beneficial for your family now, its official. Its no wonder why his fathers side of the family absolutely hates her, she contributes nothing but reaps the rewards.

She leaves to Korea on Thursday (hope she gets murdered) and the plan was to stay at Ashley's place till Wednesday morning, like fuck we literally see his mom everyday, Steve does everything for her everyday, HE DID HER FUCKING HOMEWORK FOR HER YESTERDAY! And he went to the store to get a duplicate receipt for her laptop that she lost and did her fucking banking, while she did ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!

How does she expect to care for geriatric patients when she can't even figure out youtube? or google?

Her view on homosexuality is absolutely horrid. She is extremely uneducated when it comes to homosexuality and sex. She said to me "Do all gay people have HIV?" "They're all mentally retarded right?" "they must have a mental condition" "does his dick not work?" "if you have anal sex you automatically get HIV right?" I was absolutely shocked when I heard these words spoken out of her mouth, she seriously flipped out when she found out Anderson Cooper was gay. When she told me all this I told Steve "your mom is absolutely ignorant when it comes to sex and homosexuality and we need to educate her" and he said to me "all Koreans think like that so whatever leave her alone" (<--WRONG!) and then she asks me to ask my homosexual friend's mom to help her get a job when she graduates, umm no fuck you, he owes you nothing especially after basically saying that he's mentally retarded.

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Every week since she started school its "amanda can you edit this for me?" or "can you write this for me?" and "can you read this and tell me what it means?" and she knows that I go to school full time for ACTUAL CREDITS THAT COUNT FOR SOMETHING not for some stupid program that finishes in 4 months with a practicum that is full of people who don't speak or write english well. Grades don't matter in this class she's taking, they're passing this girl that has failed every single exam that should be getting 20% So yeah I don't think it really matters if I edit her crap or not. If I don't do it, Steve ends up doing it.

So basically its like why even go to school if your not willing to do the work? She paid Steve $100 to do her 6 page project on elder abuse and I'm guessing that she didn't learn anything about that. She's like "I got an A" on random projects we did and its like no you didn't we did lol.

Basically we're leaving a day early now, which is fine I wanted to leave on Wednesday (the more time we can spend away from her the better) but a day early is better than nothing and really its not like Steve likes his mom at all, he even told me that. They don't get along, they barely talk to each other unless she wants him to do/give her something and they pretty much have nothing in common besides the fact that they are related. But he insists that he's the son and he has to do these things because its the Korean way and my friends at school (who are Korean) counter-argued that and said that they are the eldest sons and even their mothers don't do these things.

I have a feeling plans will change again real soon, will keep this updated as things progress throughout the day.

I hope to god Karma gets her.


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Sunday, February 3, 2013

January 2013 Updates

What a month, I can't believe I survived a month of Steve's mom hahaha.
Not much has happened this month, Steve leaves soon for his interview in Calgary and I don't get why his mom is staying while he is gone... and She's leaving while he's gone so.. wtf.
Anyways Here's an update on what's been happening around here.

 Had a late dinner from Stepho's!
If you don't want to wait in the long line then I suggest calling and ordering take out!

 My parents made us all have dinner together with Steve's mom and us >.<
My mom drove and we were getting pissed off because she sucks at driving lol

 Hot and Sour Soup!
Holy crap this soup was so spicy, I don't think I've had such a spicy hot and sour soup before
>.<

 Shrimp Mayo.. I don't really know what the actual name of this dish is but it's good lol

 Steamed chicken with ginger and garlic

 So much foood

Steve told me this is his favorite Choy dish and I have no idea what its called lol

 I used the hot rollers before I got my hair cut
it turned out ok.. I think I have to practice rolling them better
I didn't use hair spray so it lasted not that long haha like an hour

 Falafel burger at Raglan's
It was pretty busy when we went and I felt that my burger was a kind of overcooked

Perogies with sour cream and onions and cheese :D

Monsoon Drink, I'm not sure what drink we actually got but it had coke and lime in it

Finally went to Metrotown after so LONG! and visited the T & T supermarket
They opened up a new beauty section and it looks like a mini Watsons
They have lots of Japanese and Chinese skincare/makeup/haircare products (sort of overpriced)
So I bought these two facial masks I wanted to order from Sasa
Will review soon :D

Its been super foggy lately... so creepy..

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When Steve's sister was here I thought it would be horrible with his mom but it really wasn't bad at all. One thing that pissed me off was that why did his mom not go to Montreal instead? She knows that her daughter has to go to school and is busy with her own work and they were going to pay for a round-trip plane ticket anyway, I don't get why his mom didn't just fly out there to visit her, its not like she's doing anything here anyways.. wtf selfish. I'm not looking forward being at home with his mom for a week by myself..

In other news she told us she wants to be a health care aid because her friend supposedly makes $4000 a month which seems really ridiculous lol I asked some of my friends that are healthcare professionals and they say that's a lot unless you work a lot of overtime and she expects to make that much plus she thinks that you just sit there with old people and hang out with them LOL. She's been trying to do all the prerequisites for it and from what I can see I don't get why she even wants to try to be a student here, her english is HORRIBLE, she had to study the first aid book for 4 days before actually doing the two-day class...

I finally got a hair cut... it looks weird, I FUCKING HATE IT LOL. I'm never getting bangs ever again (Steve super loves it lol) but holy shit I hate it lol, I have to figure out a way of styling it so I don't look retarded lol. At least its healthy now.. lol

I've been going to the gym almost everyday and I've been trying to get Steve to go with me but he's been making no effort to go so I'm thinking he might fail his physical test portion of his interview and he's been extra super angry at me for no reason...


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