Man oh man I've been busy so far this year.
Merry Christmas and Happy New year to everyone lol. I'm finally buckling down and writing a post after months of not posting anything mainly because there's a lot happening in my life recently.
On Sunday Steve and I are flying to Hawaii again lol... I think my last post was about Hawaii LOL. Oddly enough I get the keys to my new place on Sunday too! Right before we leave! and FML I'm sick right now, I have no idea how I got sick but it sucks knowing that I'm going on vacation in less than a week and I'm sick T_T hopefully I'll be A-OK by sunday.
Yep finally moving out of the parents house. My mom has been freaking out recently like A LOT, over money. She's been going to the casino a lot and she's been harassing the shit out of my dad for money in a overly aggressive way that's pretty much abusive. I yelled at her for doing that and she freaked out at me and I said to myself fuck this place I'm out of here. My dad can deal with that shit, he's enabling her which is encouraging her abusive behaviour.
Funnily enough, the day before, I emailed a guy about viewing the apartment and went to go see it (only because it was a good deal, I wasn't actually serious about renting his place but as fate would have it, it was meant to be) and its actually not bad for the price point and location, which ironically is literally right around the corner from Steve's place lol! The building the apartment is in is quite old but its not bad.
The shitty thing about moving out is that I have no furniture. Well.... I have my desk (which I kind of don't want LOL), a shelf and a TV but I'm not taking the bed I'm currently sleeping on. I bought a bed frame the other day which was a great deal. Steve got upset because when he moved his mom went out and bought like $5000 worth of furniture at some store that was a block away from the place I went to where she could've went to the place I went to and spent half of that plus he said the quality was basically the same lol.
I just need to buy a mattress now, which we're going to go do tomorrow. The sofa can come later as well as the dining room set. I just need the basics at this point and I can sort out the other things later :) other than that I'm actually pretty excited!
I was scared at first because I've never really rented a place and lived alone before but I haven't regretted the decision yet... not until I realize how poor I'm going to be! LOL
Oh and I haven't told my parents about moving out yet either. I have a feeling my dad is going to be upset because he'll have to live with my mom alone and my mom will be confused and get pissed off lol. But both will be like "you're stupid, its too expensive to live on your own" something along those lines.
I think I posted a while back that I'm working as a casual at the hospital but! That might change! I'm applying for a position hopefully I'll get it! :)
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Monday, February 1, 2016
Saturday, February 21, 2015
Desperation
Its been a while since I talked about Steve's family, I think... lol I haven't really read my blog posts in a while.
The past few months especially have been the weirdest. Steve's mom wanted to buy a house a few months ago, she freaked out because she thinks that its the only time she can get a house so she's been desperate trying to buy one in North Van.
When she was told that she can't get one because she doesn't make enough income she asked Steve's sister and him to be co-signers for the mortgage, it still wasn't enough and it didn't get approved.
So since it wasn't approved she is forcing them to move out of their current apartment, why? We don't really know why LOL we were like yeah you couldn't get a house - but it doesn't mean you have to move... its kind of illogical and an inconvenience for everyone that you live with.
They should really stop letting his mom make decisions for their family. She's too impulsive and she doesn't really think ahead about how it affects other people.
I'm kind of worried about Steve co-signing a mortgage with his mom and sister (I'm not the only one) because I kinda had a goal to get a place for us within like 5 years (like a townhouse or an apartment) but him co-signing a 15 year mortgage with 2 other people would be difficult for us to get a place one day.
We thought since they didn't get approved his mom would stop looking at houses and actually look for a place to rent but nope!
The house they went to look at most recently is actually near my house and its a 2 bedroom 1 bathroom place and its a fixer upper (unfinished basement, roof needs replacing, flooring needs to be replaced), they want to renovate it and then sell it within 2 years.
They went and put an offer on that house and its about $679,000 for the house and the offer they put it was about $630,000? something like that and the owner of the house is refusing the offer because I guess they think the house is worth more? (its not lol) so they said $670,000 take it or leave it.
So here is where it gets fucked up for me and my family. Instead of looking for a place to move into next month they were just looking at houses, why? Priorities? lol its like yeah you can put an offer on a house but you won't always be able to move into it right away. So Steve's mom wants to come back and live at our house (for 2-3 months) and the only person she asked was my mom. She didn't ask what me or my dad wants and the thing is our mom doesn't make household decisions like that.
Of course she would ask my mom because they get along and she knew my mom would say yes. I told Steve that NO WAY that I will let that happen it was just absolute hell when she lived here, the suite they used to live in isn't even available for them to rent so the only option is the tiny little room near the garage and it really isn't big enough for 2 people and a dog.
So I talked to Steve about how its definitely not going to work, I explained to him how last time his mom lived here the utility bills were so high and I said it wouldn't matter if she paid for it this time around because she's just too loud and inconsiderate and then adding his sister and the dog? its just not going to work. It'll work out for her but it'll stress the shit out of everyone else in the house.
I go on practicum soon and I don't want to be woken up at 5AM because she decided to call someone in Korea and put them on speaker phone so everyone can hear or us hearing her argue with his sister or Steve. Or hear Monet excessively barking.
Its just not going to work plain and simple, I explained it to him and he told his mom that it isn't going to work, her reaction? SUPER PISSED OFF she absolutely hates my dad even though I told Steve that it was mostly my decision. But you know, she should have said something months ago instead of last minute like she always does.
At the end of the day its like if she's making all these decisions for her family, why is it that she has to drag my family into it? I mean its not like me and Steve are fully committed (no ring on ma finger! lol) I'd probably be a little more ok with it if that were the case (probably not though LOL) and if our roles were reversed his mom would not help us in any way.
Plus it'd be beneficial for Steve to live away from his mom and sister. I don't know why they are so dependent on him... laziness? Probably.
At this point his mom is on her own agenda and because we're not doing what she wants, she's super pissed off and its time she deals with her problems like an adult.
I knew Steve would pussy out about living in our house. His mom won't let him move out for the next 2-5 years because he has to help pay for the mortgage because they finally got a place in North Van (its a town house in East North Van)
All his friends are even like "WTF why are you getting a mortgage with your mom? Don't get one!" his answer? "I have no choice" ... REALLY! YOU CAN SAY NO, fucking idiot! he's too scared of his mom.
So if we got married and etc, then its really up to me to deal with the big expenses (like buying a property, etc) but he won't be allowed to live with me unless he is contributing to mortgage/rent cause wtf, really!
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Round 1
The past few months especially have been the weirdest. Steve's mom wanted to buy a house a few months ago, she freaked out because she thinks that its the only time she can get a house so she's been desperate trying to buy one in North Van.
When she was told that she can't get one because she doesn't make enough income she asked Steve's sister and him to be co-signers for the mortgage, it still wasn't enough and it didn't get approved.
So since it wasn't approved she is forcing them to move out of their current apartment, why? We don't really know why LOL we were like yeah you couldn't get a house - but it doesn't mean you have to move... its kind of illogical and an inconvenience for everyone that you live with.
They should really stop letting his mom make decisions for their family. She's too impulsive and she doesn't really think ahead about how it affects other people.
I'm kind of worried about Steve co-signing a mortgage with his mom and sister (I'm not the only one) because I kinda had a goal to get a place for us within like 5 years (like a townhouse or an apartment) but him co-signing a 15 year mortgage with 2 other people would be difficult for us to get a place one day.
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Round 2
We thought since they didn't get approved his mom would stop looking at houses and actually look for a place to rent but nope!
The house they went to look at most recently is actually near my house and its a 2 bedroom 1 bathroom place and its a fixer upper (unfinished basement, roof needs replacing, flooring needs to be replaced), they want to renovate it and then sell it within 2 years.
They went and put an offer on that house and its about $679,000 for the house and the offer they put it was about $630,000? something like that and the owner of the house is refusing the offer because I guess they think the house is worth more? (its not lol) so they said $670,000 take it or leave it.
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Final Round
So here is where it gets fucked up for me and my family. Instead of looking for a place to move into next month they were just looking at houses, why? Priorities? lol its like yeah you can put an offer on a house but you won't always be able to move into it right away. So Steve's mom wants to come back and live at our house (for 2-3 months) and the only person she asked was my mom. She didn't ask what me or my dad wants and the thing is our mom doesn't make household decisions like that.
Of course she would ask my mom because they get along and she knew my mom would say yes. I told Steve that NO WAY that I will let that happen it was just absolute hell when she lived here, the suite they used to live in isn't even available for them to rent so the only option is the tiny little room near the garage and it really isn't big enough for 2 people and a dog.
So I talked to Steve about how its definitely not going to work, I explained to him how last time his mom lived here the utility bills were so high and I said it wouldn't matter if she paid for it this time around because she's just too loud and inconsiderate and then adding his sister and the dog? its just not going to work. It'll work out for her but it'll stress the shit out of everyone else in the house.
I go on practicum soon and I don't want to be woken up at 5AM because she decided to call someone in Korea and put them on speaker phone so everyone can hear or us hearing her argue with his sister or Steve. Or hear Monet excessively barking.
Its just not going to work plain and simple, I explained it to him and he told his mom that it isn't going to work, her reaction? SUPER PISSED OFF she absolutely hates my dad even though I told Steve that it was mostly my decision. But you know, she should have said something months ago instead of last minute like she always does.
At the end of the day its like if she's making all these decisions for her family, why is it that she has to drag my family into it? I mean its not like me and Steve are fully committed (no ring on ma finger! lol) I'd probably be a little more ok with it if that were the case (probably not though LOL) and if our roles were reversed his mom would not help us in any way.
Plus it'd be beneficial for Steve to live away from his mom and sister. I don't know why they are so dependent on him... laziness? Probably.
At this point his mom is on her own agenda and because we're not doing what she wants, she's super pissed off and its time she deals with her problems like an adult.
*UPDATE BONUS ROUND*
I knew Steve would pussy out about living in our house. His mom won't let him move out for the next 2-5 years because he has to help pay for the mortgage because they finally got a place in North Van (its a town house in East North Van)
All his friends are even like "WTF why are you getting a mortgage with your mom? Don't get one!" his answer? "I have no choice" ... REALLY! YOU CAN SAY NO, fucking idiot! he's too scared of his mom.
So if we got married and etc, then its really up to me to deal with the big expenses (like buying a property, etc) but he won't be allowed to live with me unless he is contributing to mortgage/rent cause wtf, really!
Tuesday, June 3, 2014
May Updates 2014
So far worst month of the year lol.
I was supposed to visit Ashley earlier in the month but my stupid credit card got compromised (yay..) so I couldn't go and I was so pissed off! its been already a week and my fucking credit card hasn't come in the mail yet. So embarrassing trying to buy something with your credit card and getting it declined lol.
Then! I got my period late by like a week and I was freaking out lol, I think it was late because I went off the pill but when I was on the pill before my periods weren't irregular so.. wtf lol.
Steve dropped his Samsung Galaxy S4 and it broke for the second time in 6 months AND he had one of those shock absorbent phone cases that's supposed to help soften the fall or whatever and it did not work at all and it was like a 2-3 foot drop. So now he has to blow like $300 to fix his phone, he's never getting a Samsung phone ever again since it is the second time and honestly, you would think that a $700 phone would be able to endure a 2-3 foot drop without the screen shattering.. Iphones are more sturdy from our experience lol.
We went to the states the other day just to pick up a package (doesn't take that long to just cross the border) and it pisses me off so much when people overload the shit out of their cars so crap comes flying off of them when you drive behind them.
Steve bought a new car (not sure if I mentioned it..) and this bitch had dirt and rocks in her truck and was driving on the highway when suddenly all these rocks and dirt came flying at his car (secure that shit, really! or better yet clean it out!) it chipped his windshield (in 3 different places) and his paint, and I highly doubt ICBC will do shit about it because they don't care, I took a picture of the truck and wrote down their license plate. Steve was obviously super pissed about it because well ITS A NEW FUCKING CAR, he's had it for less than a month! I bet they'll say "its an act of god" or whatever and its not the fault of the person who owned the truck... could've been prevented if they had cleaned that shit out!
Then we came home and Steve and his mom got into an argument LOL what about? Well basically she woke him up at 5:30AM because she forgot to tell her management about her keycard at work so she wanted him to write out what to say in English for her and he was pissed off about it so he told her not to wake him up like that again unless she's got something written down and she FREAKED THE FUCK OUT he told her to do it the night before or at least have something written down so he can edit it but he had to write it on the spot. It was his day off and she's had tons of ESL classes and shit like wtf! SO LAZY! She can't really use the excuse "I don't know enough English" or whatever because she's taken tons of classes and University classes in Korea and its her fault if she can't do it because she makes everyone do it for her, she needs to learn and I've told Steve multiple times to let her learn on her own but he's such a puss about doing stuff for his mom lol.
She thought he was being totally unreasonable and "kicked" him out but lets get real here, she can't live by herself, she's incapable of living by herself.
I was supposed to visit Ashley earlier in the month but my stupid credit card got compromised (yay..) so I couldn't go and I was so pissed off! its been already a week and my fucking credit card hasn't come in the mail yet. So embarrassing trying to buy something with your credit card and getting it declined lol.
Then! I got my period late by like a week and I was freaking out lol, I think it was late because I went off the pill but when I was on the pill before my periods weren't irregular so.. wtf lol.
Steve dropped his Samsung Galaxy S4 and it broke for the second time in 6 months AND he had one of those shock absorbent phone cases that's supposed to help soften the fall or whatever and it did not work at all and it was like a 2-3 foot drop. So now he has to blow like $300 to fix his phone, he's never getting a Samsung phone ever again since it is the second time and honestly, you would think that a $700 phone would be able to endure a 2-3 foot drop without the screen shattering.. Iphones are more sturdy from our experience lol.
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We went to the states the other day just to pick up a package (doesn't take that long to just cross the border) and it pisses me off so much when people overload the shit out of their cars so crap comes flying off of them when you drive behind them.
Steve bought a new car (not sure if I mentioned it..) and this bitch had dirt and rocks in her truck and was driving on the highway when suddenly all these rocks and dirt came flying at his car (secure that shit, really! or better yet clean it out!) it chipped his windshield (in 3 different places) and his paint, and I highly doubt ICBC will do shit about it because they don't care, I took a picture of the truck and wrote down their license plate. Steve was obviously super pissed about it because well ITS A NEW FUCKING CAR, he's had it for less than a month! I bet they'll say "its an act of god" or whatever and its not the fault of the person who owned the truck... could've been prevented if they had cleaned that shit out!
Then we came home and Steve and his mom got into an argument LOL what about? Well basically she woke him up at 5:30AM because she forgot to tell her management about her keycard at work so she wanted him to write out what to say in English for her and he was pissed off about it so he told her not to wake him up like that again unless she's got something written down and she FREAKED THE FUCK OUT he told her to do it the night before or at least have something written down so he can edit it but he had to write it on the spot. It was his day off and she's had tons of ESL classes and shit like wtf! SO LAZY! She can't really use the excuse "I don't know enough English" or whatever because she's taken tons of classes and University classes in Korea and its her fault if she can't do it because she makes everyone do it for her, she needs to learn and I've told Steve multiple times to let her learn on her own but he's such a puss about doing stuff for his mom lol.
She thought he was being totally unreasonable and "kicked" him out but lets get real here, she can't live by herself, she's incapable of living by herself.
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I'm getting even more and more pissed off lately at Steve, only because he's SO FUCKING LAZY, he doesn't want to go out or do anything! I waited 2 hours for him to come to the gym with me and he just put up a pissy little attitude the whole fucking time and he always tells his friends how "active" he is by hitting the gym and playing hockey which is a complete lie, only plays hockey for maybe 15 minutes? might be a 40 minute game but he's not on all the time and he's not even that good of a player anymore because physically he's not what he used to be. Maybe its a combination of stress from work and stress from his mom? Not really sure but he needs to figure out a balance or he's going to implode.
What's great is THEY'RE FINALLY MOVING OUT! The weird thing? His mom doesn't want to tell his dad that they're moving, which I find really weird. I mean its your husband and you don't want to let him know that you're moving your family into a different home? His dad just earned like a thousand respect points from me because he does so much shit for them and this is the kind of treatment he gets. I mean it won't be a big deal if you tell him if you're moving, keeping it a secret will probably be a big deal because, why keep it a secret? That's really freaking weird..
Anyways that's basically it for May, my birthday is in a few days -___-' (and I bet some how it'll be ruined) and my class starts next week, wish me luck!
What's great is THEY'RE FINALLY MOVING OUT! The weird thing? His mom doesn't want to tell his dad that they're moving, which I find really weird. I mean its your husband and you don't want to let him know that you're moving your family into a different home? His dad just earned like a thousand respect points from me because he does so much shit for them and this is the kind of treatment he gets. I mean it won't be a big deal if you tell him if you're moving, keeping it a secret will probably be a big deal because, why keep it a secret? That's really freaking weird..
Anyways that's basically it for May, my birthday is in a few days -___-' (and I bet some how it'll be ruined) and my class starts next week, wish me luck!
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Thursday, May 1, 2014
April Updates 2014
I think its been a while since I wrote a monthly update blog post >.< (as far as I can remember)
Steve's mom finally got some work so its nice to get her out of the house and I guess Steve's been a little relaxed about it cause he doesn't have to put up with her constantly haha but she still annoys the shit out of him by calling him a lot lol especially when we're out, I guess its better than being physically around each other. She's worked for 3 weeks now and today she went to Montreal so I was like wtf? there really was no point in going there since Steve's sister doesn't graduate till September... I wonder why she went? But she's been gone one day and he's super relaxed lol.
In my previous post I wrote about how they were supposed to move out by this month but Steve told me (a week before the new tenant was supposed to move in) that they'll move out by June and that the manager at the building they applied for has a suite ready for them in June and that he has to go look at it etc etc... SO ANNOYING!
So I had it with their shit so I moved back upstairs lol and my room is a complete disaster at the moment since I kind of just dumped everything into the room, most of my clothes are still in Steve's room lol. He got mad at me for coming upstairs lol he said to me "why don't you just wait till I move out then go upstairs?" and he's been asking me to sleep downstairs with him ever since I came back up lol but I say no, I've taken a few nap downstairs but that's about it. I think all there's left is to move my desk upstairs and sort out my clothes.
My parents are dog sitting again.. and they are super pissed about it because they really did not want to take care of this dog again. They had to take care of him for 3 months and last week they had him for three days and now he's here for a few weeks... its like why even have a dog? They're all mad cause this time my parents said no they don't want to take care of him but the people brought him here anyways... and my parents are doing it for free. I really want to bring this dog to the spca cause he's so psycho lol.. and he's attacked Monet in the past, he tried to bite her tail off >.< so yeah not a good dog to have around plus he's so noisy for the tenants that live downstairs. If its not Steve's mom that's making noise its another... like really!
In other news I finally got my nexus card! yay! No more border wait for us! :D unless for some reason the nexus line is slow... then fuck lol. Me and Steve are going to the states next week and he's going to leave me there for a few weeks haha until Ashley and her husband come up to Vancouver for her birthday which means... lots of play time with her doggies! ^__^ and eventually a haul from the states lol.
I'm in dire need of a haircut lol its been nearly a year since I've had a cut and I have TONS of split ends, the problem is I don't really know where to go to get my haircut, I had a place in mind but the wait is too long and I don't want to go back to the place where I was getting my hair cut before cause the guy just does whatever he wants now.. like NO I DON'T WANT SHOULD LENGTH HAIR so annoying! It took me forever to grow it out and to have it nice and long..
Steve's mom finally got some work so its nice to get her out of the house and I guess Steve's been a little relaxed about it cause he doesn't have to put up with her constantly haha but she still annoys the shit out of him by calling him a lot lol especially when we're out, I guess its better than being physically around each other. She's worked for 3 weeks now and today she went to Montreal so I was like wtf? there really was no point in going there since Steve's sister doesn't graduate till September... I wonder why she went? But she's been gone one day and he's super relaxed lol.
In my previous post I wrote about how they were supposed to move out by this month but Steve told me (a week before the new tenant was supposed to move in) that they'll move out by June and that the manager at the building they applied for has a suite ready for them in June and that he has to go look at it etc etc... SO ANNOYING!
So messy lol
So I had it with their shit so I moved back upstairs lol and my room is a complete disaster at the moment since I kind of just dumped everything into the room, most of my clothes are still in Steve's room lol. He got mad at me for coming upstairs lol he said to me "why don't you just wait till I move out then go upstairs?" and he's been asking me to sleep downstairs with him ever since I came back up lol but I say no, I've taken a few nap downstairs but that's about it. I think all there's left is to move my desk upstairs and sort out my clothes.
I WANT IT
This is the cutest dog ever! I love pekingese dogs! I really wanted to take this little guy home but I just got sad cause its probably a puppy mill dog... I really really hate pet stores! Plus my mom takes care of dogs horribly I would have to wait to either move out or for her to die... to get a dog cause she takes care of them really really badly.
My parents are dog sitting again.. and they are super pissed about it because they really did not want to take care of this dog again. They had to take care of him for 3 months and last week they had him for three days and now he's here for a few weeks... its like why even have a dog? They're all mad cause this time my parents said no they don't want to take care of him but the people brought him here anyways... and my parents are doing it for free. I really want to bring this dog to the spca cause he's so psycho lol.. and he's attacked Monet in the past, he tried to bite her tail off >.< so yeah not a good dog to have around plus he's so noisy for the tenants that live downstairs. If its not Steve's mom that's making noise its another... like really!
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In other news I finally got my nexus card! yay! No more border wait for us! :D unless for some reason the nexus line is slow... then fuck lol. Me and Steve are going to the states next week and he's going to leave me there for a few weeks haha until Ashley and her husband come up to Vancouver for her birthday which means... lots of play time with her doggies! ^__^ and eventually a haul from the states lol.
I'm in dire need of a haircut lol its been nearly a year since I've had a cut and I have TONS of split ends, the problem is I don't really know where to go to get my haircut, I had a place in mind but the wait is too long and I don't want to go back to the place where I was getting my hair cut before cause the guy just does whatever he wants now.. like NO I DON'T WANT SHOULD LENGTH HAIR so annoying! It took me forever to grow it out and to have it nice and long..
Century egg and pork congee
I have no idea why but I've been SUPER craving congee lately. Me and Steve went to a late night congee house but its so far away T_T and I'm way too lazy to make some.. I guess I'm just going to have to wait, poop.
Went nuts at a Korean snack restaurant
Its not often we go to Coquitlam to get Korean food but when we do... we go nuts! I guess this place isn't so great cause both me and Steve got diarrhea LOL but the food tasted good hahahaha. I like the fish cake soup especially, the broth is really lightly seasoned and comforting.
Anyways I guess that's all I can ramble about this month, otherwise I got the marks I wanted from school so I'm super happy and I'm doing a summer class that starts in June >.<
Anyways I guess that's all I can ramble about this month, otherwise I got the marks I wanted from school so I'm super happy and I'm doing a summer class that starts in June >.<
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Thursday, March 20, 2014
They're Moving!
HOLY CRAP!
THE DAY HAS FINALLY COME well not exactly but its going to be happening soon, Steve and his mom are finally moving out of our house! ^____^ !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! wooooo!
Ever since his mom came back to Canada its been hell for all of us, she's soooo needy! She tries to play it off like she's the quietest, most understanding, least resource consuming person in the house but its total opposite of that >.<
we had the highest water/electric bill we've had in years ($600!!! wtf!) double from last year and I automatically knew that it was his fucking stupid mom because I know she uses the most water and electricity in the house. She would leave all the fucking lights on and then leave the house! wtf! and when she showers she'll leave it running while using the sink to brush her teeth or w/e, and its like wtf do that shit first then shower! She tried to blame my parents for it and I was like wtf? Its not like they're asking you to pay for it, they're just telling you to use less water and turn off the fucking lights. But she got overly offended when we told her to limit the usage of water and electricity. -___-'
Lately she has been stressing the shit out of Steve, he's grown TONS of white hairs. Its mainly her asking him to do stupid shit for her that she can easily do but she decides to be fucking lazy. This morning she got upset at him and threw his bag, backpack and tool box at the door, blocking it... why? Because he wouldn't send a fucking email to her friend LOL WTF!
THE DAY HAS FINALLY COME well not exactly but its going to be happening soon, Steve and his mom are finally moving out of our house! ^____^ !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! wooooo!
Ever since his mom came back to Canada its been hell for all of us, she's soooo needy! She tries to play it off like she's the quietest, most understanding, least resource consuming person in the house but its total opposite of that >.<
we had the highest water/electric bill we've had in years ($600!!! wtf!) double from last year and I automatically knew that it was his fucking stupid mom because I know she uses the most water and electricity in the house. She would leave all the fucking lights on and then leave the house! wtf! and when she showers she'll leave it running while using the sink to brush her teeth or w/e, and its like wtf do that shit first then shower! She tried to blame my parents for it and I was like wtf? Its not like they're asking you to pay for it, they're just telling you to use less water and turn off the fucking lights. But she got overly offended when we told her to limit the usage of water and electricity. -___-'
Lately she has been stressing the shit out of Steve, he's grown TONS of white hairs. Its mainly her asking him to do stupid shit for her that she can easily do but she decides to be fucking lazy. This morning she got upset at him and threw his bag, backpack and tool box at the door, blocking it... why? Because he wouldn't send a fucking email to her friend LOL WTF!
all because he wouldn't send an email
Oh and its his only day off during the week since he works and goes to school (works 4 days a week and goes to school 4 days a week) So I try to let him sleep in as much as he can but she woke him up at 9AM to delete one sentence off her resume and to send an email to her friend.
Lol I had to block out his face
He grew tons of white hairs
I'm so fucking frustrated at her because these things she can easily fucking do for herself, and I'm pretty sure she knows how to do this shit, she's just being lazy. She should fucking learn to let him relax at least one day a week like WTF such a selfish woman she doesn't even think about her kids. I think she's one of those Asian parents who think that if you give them money/buy them stuff that means they automatically owe them something.
Ever since she "graduated" from her care aid program she's been desperately searching for an apartment to rent with Steve and his sister LOL. I put "graduated" in quotes because she didn't do ANY of her homework assignments and made us do it for her. She's been constantly harassing us all to write her a cover letter and resume and she actually flew out his sister for 3 days to write her resume and cover letter -___-' but I guess all her "hard work" finally paid off because she has an interview at the Lynn Valley retirement home, which I think she will get the job and then I will lose faith in humanity lol.
Anyways, the sooner they move out, the sooner I don't have to deal with her narcissism -__-'
Never in my life have I met someone like his mom, I even told Steve that when they leave I don't want to visit/see her for like many many years LOL. All of our friends (as well as my parents) have said that Steve is going to die young because his mom won't let him live his own life and he's going to stress out and die.
They've had a few arguments this month mainly because she doesn't want him to play video games on his down time and she wants him to study more lol (he doesn't play excessively like he did before) but it got to the point where she just won't shut up about it and she called him selfish! LOL OMG! I was like are you kidding me?! He was like WTF, he got so angry, he confronted her about her selfishness and left the house for a few hours, she wasn't even upset about it at all.
Steve hates it when we talk about his family, he really doesn't want people to think he comes from a dysfunctional family but he really does but who am I to judge? My mom's super psycho because she's got dementia and shit and my dad cares about his kids and all but he doesn't really care about how badly our mom treats us.
I want to break up with him because of his mom lol but he's a good guy in general he's just on tons of stress and I hate seeing him like this and if he moves out its just going to get worse, so good luck to him.
He's really going to need it.
Anyways, the sooner they move out, the sooner I don't have to deal with her narcissism -__-'
Never in my life have I met someone like his mom, I even told Steve that when they leave I don't want to visit/see her for like many many years LOL. All of our friends (as well as my parents) have said that Steve is going to die young because his mom won't let him live his own life and he's going to stress out and die.
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They've had a few arguments this month mainly because she doesn't want him to play video games on his down time and she wants him to study more lol (he doesn't play excessively like he did before) but it got to the point where she just won't shut up about it and she called him selfish! LOL OMG! I was like are you kidding me?! He was like WTF, he got so angry, he confronted her about her selfishness and left the house for a few hours, she wasn't even upset about it at all.
Steve hates it when we talk about his family, he really doesn't want people to think he comes from a dysfunctional family but he really does but who am I to judge? My mom's super psycho because she's got dementia and shit and my dad cares about his kids and all but he doesn't really care about how badly our mom treats us.
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I want to break up with him because of his mom lol but he's a good guy in general he's just on tons of stress and I hate seeing him like this and if he moves out its just going to get worse, so good luck to him.
He's really going to need it.
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Sunday, June 30, 2013
100th Post!
Woohooo! This is my 100th Post!
How do I want to commemorate this? By bitching out!
STUPID SCHOOOOOL!
So the school sent me an email telling me that I can register for my program classes at noon on the 27th of June. I logged in at 11:45AM to see if I can access it and it locked me out saying to come back later, So I was like ok I guess I'll have to come back at noon. I come in at 12 on the dot and ALL THE CLASSES ARE FULL. So I'm fucking waitlisted! I'm like WHAT THE FUUUCK?!!?!??!
Here's the problem with this schools registration program: They will let anyone register for anything as long as you meet the prerequisites.
So technically I don't even have to take Kinesiology classes I can take Nutrition classes or business classes. What I should have done was to register for something totally random and then have an earlier registration time then take the classes I want like really WHAT THE HELL!? Why let someone registered for something else take someone elses seat in the class they want?! I'm literally like position 50 in almost all the classes I signed up for and I only get offered a seat when my position is at 0, so basically there are 50 people ahead of me for one fucking class.
On top of that there are some pre-reqs I don't have for certain classes and if I take this one test I won't have to do a certain course which is like $90.
I go ask my dad for $90 and he's like "no, go ask Steve" its like really? FUCK YOU. He's always said "oh I'll pay for your school so you don't have to worry" and then I ask him for fucking $90 and he says no... and he looked at me like I just killed his family.
Well like what the fuck am I going to do when September drops if I can't get into the courses I want? almost everything is full >.< and fuck that I don't want to work.
Rant over lol.
Second Rant Begins.
So we got a new renter who seems like a really nice girl from the UK so she has like no furniture or anything. So She just asked if it was possible to get a bigger bed so I was like that shouldn't be a big deal we have tons upstairs and they're not all being used. So today me and Steve decide to move the bed and my parents FREAKED THE FUCK OUT. They're like "NO! THAT'S OUR BED! WE NEED IT!" Really? You don't even use that bed and nobody ever wants to stay here.
Basically what they mean is give them the shittiest furniture and other used goods because they can't afford to have their own house -___-' like seriously wtf why even rent, not only that this house is FULL of garbage, if I could afford to pay people to come here and throw out all the useless unnecessary furniture and other garbage I would but I can't cause I'm poor lol.
So then they went on a rampage saying that I'm: a bad daughter, lazy, useless, stupid, mentally disabled, etc.. my mom then asks Steve's mom to make some tea and my mom says to her "I look at her face and her mind and she's no good" I'm like are you fucking kidding? Who says that about their own kid?
I hope to god that she fucking dies soon my dad too and I know how some people will say "if your parents die you'll miss them" and all that bullshit and I'm going to say umm.. NO thanks but no thanks I don't think I'll miss verbal abuse.
Do you know what my favorite thing my mom ever said me was? When I was 12 and I wanted to go sleep over at my friends house for their birthday party my mom said "Why do you want to go sleep there? You just want to have sex with their dad don't you because you want to be a prostitute" Ahh preteen memories. And she asks Steve's mom why Ashley and I don't like her... seriously.
My parents, are just pieces of garbage. I wish when me and Ashley were little we were adopted by real parents instead of having these idiots raise us.
Are your parents similar or worse? How do you deal with them? Let's start a support group lol.
What a way to commemorate 100 posts lol I actually wanted to do something more interesting but this hasn't been a good week and I just had to bitch out lol, so I guess I'll save it for the next post.
How do I want to commemorate this? By bitching out!
STUPID SCHOOOOOL!
So the school sent me an email telling me that I can register for my program classes at noon on the 27th of June. I logged in at 11:45AM to see if I can access it and it locked me out saying to come back later, So I was like ok I guess I'll have to come back at noon. I come in at 12 on the dot and ALL THE CLASSES ARE FULL. So I'm fucking waitlisted! I'm like WHAT THE FUUUCK?!!?!??!
Here's the problem with this schools registration program: They will let anyone register for anything as long as you meet the prerequisites.
So technically I don't even have to take Kinesiology classes I can take Nutrition classes or business classes. What I should have done was to register for something totally random and then have an earlier registration time then take the classes I want like really WHAT THE HELL!? Why let someone registered for something else take someone elses seat in the class they want?! I'm literally like position 50 in almost all the classes I signed up for and I only get offered a seat when my position is at 0, so basically there are 50 people ahead of me for one fucking class.
On top of that there are some pre-reqs I don't have for certain classes and if I take this one test I won't have to do a certain course which is like $90.
I go ask my dad for $90 and he's like "no, go ask Steve" its like really? FUCK YOU. He's always said "oh I'll pay for your school so you don't have to worry" and then I ask him for fucking $90 and he says no... and he looked at me like I just killed his family.
Well like what the fuck am I going to do when September drops if I can't get into the courses I want? almost everything is full >.< and fuck that I don't want to work.
Rant over lol.
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Second Rant Begins.
So we got a new renter who seems like a really nice girl from the UK so she has like no furniture or anything. So She just asked if it was possible to get a bigger bed so I was like that shouldn't be a big deal we have tons upstairs and they're not all being used. So today me and Steve decide to move the bed and my parents FREAKED THE FUCK OUT. They're like "NO! THAT'S OUR BED! WE NEED IT!" Really? You don't even use that bed and nobody ever wants to stay here.
Basically what they mean is give them the shittiest furniture and other used goods because they can't afford to have their own house -___-' like seriously wtf why even rent, not only that this house is FULL of garbage, if I could afford to pay people to come here and throw out all the useless unnecessary furniture and other garbage I would but I can't cause I'm poor lol.
So then they went on a rampage saying that I'm: a bad daughter, lazy, useless, stupid, mentally disabled, etc.. my mom then asks Steve's mom to make some tea and my mom says to her "I look at her face and her mind and she's no good" I'm like are you fucking kidding? Who says that about their own kid?
I hope to god that she fucking dies soon my dad too and I know how some people will say "if your parents die you'll miss them" and all that bullshit and I'm going to say umm.. NO thanks but no thanks I don't think I'll miss verbal abuse.
Do you know what my favorite thing my mom ever said me was? When I was 12 and I wanted to go sleep over at my friends house for their birthday party my mom said "Why do you want to go sleep there? You just want to have sex with their dad don't you because you want to be a prostitute" Ahh preteen memories. And she asks Steve's mom why Ashley and I don't like her... seriously.
My parents, are just pieces of garbage. I wish when me and Ashley were little we were adopted by real parents instead of having these idiots raise us.
Are your parents similar or worse? How do you deal with them? Let's start a support group lol.
What a way to commemorate 100 posts lol I actually wanted to do something more interesting but this hasn't been a good week and I just had to bitch out lol, so I guess I'll save it for the next post.
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